harsh reality

last SG · 2007-09-18T21:56:28+00:00

aiyo this guy ar.. anyway, the way u camped is really a stalker way you dont have to secretly peek her ba... jus be a normal friends... find her out or in...

angel7030 SG

Yo, in relation if it's not yours it means not yours, if it's yours, naturally it will be yours, fate is not cruel, it is you who is cruel to yourself. Wake up and go run 5km ya.

curiousOrange SG

You are going to fail if you tell her your feelings.

The reason is simple.

You yourself are not convinced you are good enough for her.

When there are no enemies within, the enemies outside cannot hurt you.

The biggest enemy you are facing now is your lack of confidence.

Ask yourself. What have you done so far other than running away from your biggest enemy?

That guy who is seeing her all the time conveniently became a scapegoat.

Dont go around telling people you have no courage.

Nobody is born with confidence.

Start today or dont start at all.

When you have finished reading what I wrote to you. Start being a confident man straight away!

Nobody can tell you specifically where you can find courage and confidence.

Confidence is fifty percent improvement and fifty percent experience.

Constantly remind yourself this,

If I have done something and failed, Im still much better off than if I have done nothing and succeeded.

Take care.

annoy-you-must SG

In the search to find the girl , you will be rejected several times.

Imagine you are a $3000 vacuum cleaner sales guy.
You go door to door, knocking on the doors of your potential buyer.
Out of 10 doors, you get rejected 9 times.. until you found the one buyer who so happen to have the need, and money to buy your product.
Along the way, you will meet competitors who may or may not have more superior product than you.
It is up to you, to sell the product and win over the buyer.

I like this.

DjMatrix SG

exercise

ordinaryguy32 SG

Don't worry, pal.
You'll get over it in 2-3 months.

Looking back, you would find it's a good learning experience.

Well done, you have made the move, even though you know you stand a little chance.

sorasky SG

just find a better girl Mr. Green

angel7030 SG

Exercise?? exercise which part?? must tell him which part to exercise you know, if not, he may end up exercising the wrong part.

Kyndred SG

Try again.

Go read this book "Thick Face Black Heart" before you do.

Nikar2 SG

(angel)

Exercise?? exercise which part?? must tell him which part to exercise you know, if not, he may end up exercising the wrong part.

aiyoh.....when guy exercise, of course exercise kuku lah, what else??!! Rolling Eyes
if TS train hard enough, 6 cm sagging, limpy and soft kuku will become 42 cm horse-size, always-on-erection kuku jiao.

WAY TO GO!!!!!!!

fatslob SG

No use getting all angsty and dejected over it...

Time to search for the next target, and believe me.. they're out there.

Btw, there's only space enough for a truly FAT one here and there's no way in heck u r fatter than me.

angel7030 SG

Huh! cuckoo bird???

dangerboi SG

stalking is a crime..please don’t do that ever again…also, have you entered ns? probably you’ll not like this girl when you are in ns…let nature takes its course..you are merely 18

de_middle SG

take it easy & gd luck...hopefully u'll find ur life partner one day Smile

fatone SG

i'm 1.7m and weigh 95kg, without a life i fly around everyday.

i'm living on a hope that one day, i'll not be shunned by the community.

sLeEpWaLkErInG SG

I think you do not understand the book in the first place. The reader must be able to digest the contents, else he will be making himself a bastard. I am currently reading this and prior b4 this, i read other versions by other authors.

I have a fellow friend who mis-interpreted the contents and I have to guide him on the right way to get things right.

fatone SG

where can i purchase this book?

sLeEpWaLkErInG SG

You can get the book from Kinokuniya, Takashimaya.

But I am afraid that the contents is too hard for you to understand.
I am trying to digest the contents also as some of the meanings are quite misleading if you only just browse thru.

The teachings of this mindset is like having the thick skin like Liu Bei and ruthless like Cao Cao. The current author has mentioned in the book that she doesn't really want the reader to practice the "art" but to protect themselves from aggressive people.

using it as a shield rather than a sword.

fatone SG

all my life i've been fat. since birth i've been cursed with this curse. been made fun since i was young, always the biggest one and always picked on. fighting back always landed me in trouble, nobody would speak to me. i put on a fake smile to my family as i don't want them to know what my life is. alone for most of my life, mingling with others is nothing but a distant dream.

my size is a herediatary-related one, dieting and exercising has not helped much.every night when i go to sleep, i only pray that my life would be much better.i've never had the luxury of buying clothes at a normal shop, i have to go to 'special' shops. i want to be a normal person, live a normal life. i don't want to pant everytime i climb the stairs, i don't want people to give me weird looks in the trains/buses. my dream and goal is to to lead a simple and normal life, yet fate is cruel. i don't drink or smoke yet life isn't really fair.

i'm sorry i bothered anyone with my whining, i just needed to let someone know what is it like to be, me.

i'm just a man, with a will to survive.

sLeEpWaLkErInG SG

You are lacking self-confidence due to your physical being.
though as per what you mentioned, itz hereditary, exercise and good meal will help.
You can check out the pumping iron forums to get the experts to guide you on weight lost, they should be able to chip in a few suggestion.
I do not really recommend dieting as in my past MLM business of health products and thru some books, when you refrain from certain nutrients, your body will somehow or what produce this nutrients by itself and it produced more than required.
Let this be your goal and you will definitely achieve what you want. Mr. Green

fatone SG

you won't know what it's like till you walk a mile in my shoes.

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