harsh reality

last SG · 2007-09-18T21:56:28+00:00

aiyo this guy ar.. anyway, the way u camped is really a stalker way you dont have to secretly peek her ba... jus be a normal friends... find her out or in...

sLeEpWaLkErInG SG

I have friends who are obese and they are in better shape now.
Itz all in your willpower, on how much you want this to happen.

Weather too hot, maybe tomorrow then run, do not give yourself excuses anymore. Do it, make it happen to fulfill your dreams.

You are who you are, other than NS, no one can force you to do what you do not wanna do.

dcx SG

Write so well, yet so lousy at expressing yourself to her..

If you bo ji to approach her, then what makes you think you have the "ji" to be with her....

In another word, no girls will like to be with a "seedless" guy, especially someone who can't even express his feelings to her (Expect her to be a mind-reader? Or expect her to ask for your hand?)

In simple, don't be a "gu niang"

fatone SG

fellow brother, talk is cheap. living my life for 18 years and i know what's it like when i speak to a girl. it will go fine for minutes before excuses comes in and bam!, she's gone just like that. it's not the first time and neither will it be the last time. have you ever spared a moment to think how will someone like me feel when he goes into a sports retail store and sees his favourite club's soccer jersey yet he knows he can only buy it to hang it in his room? have you ever been laughed at, made fun of and made to be the fool? during P.E lessons have any of your teachers/classmates made you look like a clown? i have, i've been through this since primary school till i was 16.

have you gone through the thought of hesitating to sit on a chair in fear of it breaking and making a fool out of yourself infront your fellow peers? i doubt so, with your reply.

it will take an earth angel to create a miracle for me.

dcx SG

Try to spell "Impossible"

sLeEpWaLkErInG SG

Resistant to change is a killer.. if you still think pessimistically, no advice will go into your head.

Only you can create miracles for yourself, do not expect others to do it for you. This life is your own. Sincerely, i hope the army will help you, train hard and enjoy, then you will be able to enjoy fruits of your labour.

That's all i wanna say. Rolling Eyes

fatone SG

i bow my head in humble gratitude.

toll123 SG

You will never know if you never try so why not give yourself a chance by proceed on?

Anyway you will never know what will happens in the future and your future lies with your hands Very Happy If you persists (but not disturbing), you will get a chance to win her heart.

And also, do stop all those following thing as it is very disturbing Razz

fatone SG

i have stopped it already.

toll123 SG

Glad to hear that Razz

Anyway another piece of advice, being rejected once doesn't means that you will be rejected forever.......

finrise SG

Originally posted by fatone:
there's a girl i am fond of at work, we're both 18. she's very close with her guy friend who i'm just hi-bye friends with. they're from the same sec school and now same poly. both stay same place also. the dude always goes out with her, i go out to lunch with her less than once a week. i feel extremely jealous and heart broken at the same time as she obviously treats him much better than even though i always wake up early to get her fav coffee from a place i don't want to disclose, every morning, period. [b]i always give reasons like i accidently bought 2 cups or i was near the shop. sometimes i leave a cake and coffee on her table and the guy will claim to buy it. the guy obviously treats her like normal normal and even ask her to carry his bag sometimes. yes, i am not as good looking as him, he is average looking while i'm below average. i make it a point to make sure her desk is free from papers and stuffs when she comes to work, and always try to put a small teddy bear or rose on her table and act like coming in late so she won't suspect it's me. this goes on and on for the whole hols, and hols is ending soon. i fear we might not cross paths again, it'll be too much for me to take. every other day, i'd wear a jacket and follow them as they always leave work together. they always go down to vivo or cine, it makes me feel extremely insecure. i can safely presume they're not together yet but i don't know how long. i've camped under her block for days to see who she goes back with and the guy sends her back once in awhile. sleepless nights over my insecurities, i'm turning nuts. sometimes i think im crazy, am i just wasting my time? is there anyway out? i fear if i confess, being rejected is something i don't think i can handle.

please help me out, fellow brothers and sisters.

i try to fool myself thinking that i'm happy and she will not be with him, but to avail.

it feels like a laundry room.[/b]

Since you wanna be with her ... u do so much things for her... yet you dun wanna her to know... getting yourself so miserable .. what you want????

Chang Tong Bu Ru Duan Tong....

Be a man... face it.!!! Tell her waht you have done and your feeling...!!!

fatone SG

read first please, thanks.

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