Did I do it right?

seotiblizzard SG

Just whack Z.

gigabyte14 SG

Z is really boliao

he needs someone to dominate

four of you, don't talk to him lor

he'll definitely crawl back to you guys

ifish SG

you should have just continue scratching ur armpit..

oOprinceOo SG

Z mus bang wall and die.

rain-coat SG

[quote]Originally posted by LatecomerX:
[b]
Let me guess something (which is quite obvious here) - A is more well-liked by your group as compared to Z. (You won't label him as "Z" if he is well-included into your group, right? Wink )

wow! behavioural analysis. cool cool. i want to learn from you!

ShrodingersCat SG

don't let other people's bad behaviour be a factor to what you think is the right way to behave

you keep trying to justify what you did by saying he is someone who is annoying

but be a gentleman la - this means you don't only do the right thing to people you like.

cApitaland SG

primary school right?

try psycho A B C D E F etc to ostracize Z.
Twisted Evil

caleb_chiang SG

immature acts... should had told Z during the phone call about A leaving soon instead of letting him make empty promises. A is a guy so he can leave himself... unless BCD is a bunch of homo wanting A to be their bf... Laughing

Think for yourself... if you in Z shoe then you also will du lan one lor... Rolling Eyes

AndrewPKYap SG

This is so serious I think it is best that you let a professional psychiatrist handle your case instead of asking people in a forum for their opinion.

Zarks SG

wat is this nonsense? This is madness !

ItchyArmpit SG

lol... try reading my 1st post again...

Z knew that A needs to go home early, and yeah Z likes to act, but after he act he will at least do one thing wrong, but this time he even scold us....

anyway Z has like got the hint that we dont like him, but too bad, instead of changing himself, he got away from us

we are a bunch of sec sch student... but we are not those pai kia or pai kia wannabes...

and ya if i am in Z shoe, i would not have made empty promise as i noe A is hurrying back to home, and we dont wanna pang seh A cuz he nv even pang seh us once and is all the time we pang seh A, and we think we should not pang seh A too many times... so..........

and yeah, i admit my act is not gentleman, but i cant control myself being bad to a person whom i look down on his characteristics and attitude, i am not so noble, i am only 14 yrs old ^^

i guess i did not do anything wrong except for being bias and not gentleman... but i would like to be my ownself rather than a gentleman which is totally not me.... i like to follow my feelings and conciousness...

anyway thx to those who commented, thanks again!!

i am rather more concious now after 2 days and discussing with my closest friend i could have ^^

ItchyArmpit SG

yeah this may be nonsense to you...
but for me as a 14 yr old teenager who often have mood swings and change of attitude, and of cuz at this age i am not matured enough and not experienced enough to judge things well and settle things in a more win-win solution....

so yeah, guess u are really experienced and matured.....

if u dont mind, try giving some tips for these kind of problems, especially things towards friendships and maybe relationships stuff that can be useful in future when i have one girl....

IA

ShrodingersCat SG

Hey Mr Armpit,

Nobody becomes a good person or a considerate person overnight unless you are born a saint. It is great that you do feel a nagging doubt over what you have done and by querying about your actions, you are self reflecting - already it is more than what many self absorbed people would have done.

You are only 14 now but that's what building a life is all about. Slowly slowly we accummulate our life's lessons - so that by the time we are 30, 40, 50 - we can learn to be honest to ourselves about what we are, and what we should do.

This honesty to self is more important than simply 'doing good' or 'being nice' because sometimes the motivation for being a nice person may not be 'good' at all Smile if you don't truly understand yourself. That is why i say don't 'justify' your actions by someone else's behaviour. First understand your own.

A gentleman who only 'act' but dont understand WHY he is doing only an empty shell Smile You should never be someone you are not.

ItchyArmpit SG

ok... actually i noe these all, but this reply made me know something that is more important than knowledge...

... now i noe i am right, i have the confidence now, although not perfect, but i guess this small obstacle in my life had transformed into a great stepping stone in my life.....

and yeah.... if friends cant even take the attitude of me, wat for being friends when no positive impacts is done, and in fact negative..... vice versa

once again, thx all who commented ^^

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