Damn frustrated and confused.

last SG · 2007-09-14T01:34:57+00:00

We shared a lot. I've been to his place a couple of times, I know how he treats his family members. He knows mine. Gah, I really dont know. I understand that...

fgfm SG

Agree...Sigh..

ShrodingersCat SG

cos novelty ma

now see true colours...

like i said feel relieved now,
u not like the wife in jojobeach's post.

fgfm SG

cant forget about him luh >.<

BenBenDeZhu SG

eat more chocolates

dumbdumb! SG

haha. hmm.. i used to be a gamer, but kinda grew out of it. so no idea how it feels to be obsessed with it Sad

but regardless about it. you were rather princessy la. it wouldn't work in most relationship, whether your bf is a gamer or not.

you still need to work on your independence and not be so sticky. taxi here taxi there. Confused

fgfm SG

Dont. Ever. Try.

As I said...I know I was being kinda princessy. But its all accumulated anger. It wasnt the first time he overslept. And moreover, if he did replied my msg the night before, I wouldnt be THAT angry.

dumbdumb! SG

haha. nah.. i mean.. i'm really not interested in games, too lazy. so i don't think will happen la. Wink

FailureOfTheNation SG

yeah. i also think there's really nothing very wrong with most of her demands.

the bf can dun reply to her sms for such a long time? what if she met an accident or what then, her closest and the person she needs most, her bf, becomes uncontactable?

i mean, however busy he is, doesnt take much to type 'sorry very bz now contact u again later'

and wait under void deck for 2 hrs? ouch

boys and girls, can a r/s truly survive if one party puts the r/s as a second priority?

for example, for me, its depressing to think that my gf would readily give me up if she were to choose between me and her hobbies (which is priority 1). can it really work out?

fgfm SG

Hmmmmmmmmmm. If only my ex was like you. Lol...Sigh.

jojobeach SG

fgfm,

Wouldn't it be better to think this
"Hmmmmmm, IF only my next bf is like you"

ordinaryguy32 SG

I agree that any form of obsession is bad for the relationship, e.g. gaming, football, and that a guy should put his gf as one of the top priorities.

TS, Some of the guys here mentioned about your manipulative princessy attitude, and I would like to say that's a relationship killer too...

Perhaps there is something in the relationship between you and him that he felt tired about (relationships with tantrum-prone girls are very tiring), so much that he went back to gaming again...

Perhaps you should ask him what he doesn't like about the relationship too, instead of just telling him what you don't like about the relationship (e.g. gaming too often)

Here, well-meaning pple like jojobeach may say "Oh my, what do you need such a guy for?", but I feel that nobody's perfect (it's tough to find the other perfect jigsaw piece), and sometimes we need to work on our relationship (very much like planting a bonsai)...

People do change, only when they feel sufficiently understood and hence motivated to.

Good luck, gal.

ordinaryguy32 SG

A side comment about gaming...

I'm worried that a whole new generation of guys/girls grow up, playing too much computer games... Already many schoolgoing teenagers are playing too much, and ignoring traditional recreational activities like sports, reading, board games..

Computer games are unlikely to go away, because there are even university level modules about them and it's a big source of revenue.

One reason why too many teenagers and even adults play them, is because they can escape into a fantasy world they have control over. This, I fear, would diminish their survival and social skills in the real world. It also creates a feeling of apathy to the real world.

I have been a gamer years ago. It wasn't so popular then, I just played to kill time in my idle NS years, and sometimes the real world seemed so surreal after when you emerged briefly from the game.

Sagara SG

aiyah break lah.

It's obvious you 2 are too young for this.

1 is a princess while the other just wants to party and play.

A simple guess of age would be that both of you are > 20 or even 18.

Sagara SG

I used to be a crazy gamer where 12-17 hour gaming sessions with friends are normal.

Got a gf, talked and quarreled abit over it, grew a brain and played less.

Went to NS, brain grewed more, played even lesser.

Now working, games have since become just a small part of life, don't really play unless i'm into the mood.

It takes maturity and communication between 2 to handle a RS. My gf used to hate me playing games too, but now she accepts that it's a simple way for me to have fun and interact with my RL buddies.

dumbdumb! SG

heh heh, grew a brain.

but i agree la. as you grow older, the appeal for games just die off. i just can't be bothered you know? i rather go out, read a book, watch a flick etc.

Sagara SG

yea but when your close RL buddies are all unattached and play the same MMO, it's damn hard... Laughing

fgfm SG

Thanks for your advice. But even there's no maturity in us/me, there's still feelings =.= Its not as easy as saying "aiyah break lah".

fgfm SG

I kind of explained to him before. And he was said something about playing games even when he's old or something. As in thirties? Baaaaaaah. Annoying.

Zarks SG

pity, i dont thk that guy really like u la... mayb just play around with you

Dear, i still think you're ok, i in fact have met some gals worst than you..

LIttle attention seeking is alwasy alrite one.. gal ma...plus, if you dont even do things like demanding things , if i were your ex, i would have done it without u need to tell me what to do Cool

Zarks SG

i still stand by TS's side, who bully her again , i kill him Laughing

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