qlqq9 SG Hello, doko, nice to know you are here. I am formally known as rane. Did you manage to date that girl? OK, that is all I want to say, I am not hijacking this thread. Sorry, TS for I have side tracked a little.
TheGoodEarth SG It is not frightening, they are all painful. Fall - painful + ough Relationship - painful + hurtful Sex - painful + pleasure Break up - painful + hard to do
binarynwitz SG We learn by pain. Failing down, and then picking ourselves up. It is part and parcel of life. So if you fear being hurt and hence not fall in love, does it mean you wouldn't go out of your house, because you might, for example, get banged by a car?
AndrewPKYap SG Don’t you think that to be hurt by “love” is much more common than “knocked down by a car”? Therefore, it is still reasonable to be fearful of love and still be able to walk out of the house. (Not that I think people should avoid relationships because of the potential for hurt)
Father Lim SG you are quite a pessimistic person i feel.... life is to be lived as you said... fear and love is part of our lives... when fear forces us into inaction, regrets abound... i always feel it is always better to act than to be binded by indecision... fulfill the potential rather than think back on what could have been...
AndrewPKYap SG You can't seem to differentiate between a person that brings up a pessimistic topic for discussion (and in so doing, hopes to banish pessimistic people's perspectives) and a pessimistic person. For example, by your post I can label you a careless person because you said, "i always feel it is always better to act than to be binded by indecision..." Does that mean that you are a careless reckless person?
AndrewPKYap SG How in the world does a victim of life makes himself so popular in sgforums? Could it be you use the right mascot and people simply adore rodents and soon think of you as a rodent? (hahaha don't tell me ferrets are not rodents...)
boka SG Every sec,there are those in 3rd world nation suffering from hunger,abuses and being high risk to traffickers and u call falling in love and breaking up frightening? Are u lost?
AndrewPKYap SG Summary: Isis: sex not frightening but "Fall in love and getting hurt is very saddening" so he is unattached Ferret: and calls himself a "victim Of life" Detached: Just seems so tiring now Paradise Lost: "No doubt some of which might turn sour and lead to emotional trauma, but thats simply not an excuse to fear it isn't it?" dokono: only if the sex is not good... selfobliged: "that y we girls have to find a boyfriend carefully" SingaporeMacross: "If you're in it just for the sex, it will never end well." qlqq9: "Relationship is complicated, marriage is even more complicated." yiha093: same opinion as Detached TheGoodEarth: "It is not frightening, they are all painful." binarynwitz: "Failing down, and then picking ourselves up. It is part and parcel of life." Father Lim: "fulfill the potential rather than think back on what could have been..." jam on a bread: "wait still have..pregnant have kids stress quarrels..even more frightening " Zarks: "wtf for me hv sex is fun , wats so frightening ? " boka: "there are those in 3rd world nation suffering from hunger,abuses and being high risk to traffickers and u call falling in love and breaking up frightening?" : "Depends..." ============================ or or or or all of the above?
RedizAlertz SG Frightening?? There aint even love in tat cycle.. Nowadays pple "fall in love" cos of physical appearance...then, in order to hav sex, thy "start a relationship" to make it "legalised".. After thy got wat thy want (e.g SEX), break up is the onli thing left to do. I wld call that worthless.
