Originally posted by walesa:
Isn't that the source of your own predicament in the first
place?
You have a set of values you expect others to abide by and anything
that falls short is rendered a failure on the part of others. Would
you step back for a moment and try looking at things from
[b]his perspective?
That said, if you're so keen to ensure you get a fair deal and that
he should be showing his sincerity because
you're showing yours, instead of being
prepared to give selflessly, why
bother being in a relationship in the first place? That way, you
won't need to worry about giving more than you receive! 
Of course, if you think he's taking you for granted, that's quite
another matter and you ought to know when to call time on your
relationship, but how anyone in a relationship can have a mindset
like yours is beyond me.
Over the course of a lifetime (assuming your marriage would even
last that long with your mindset), it's quite obvious both parties
aren't going to receive more than what they give - if you can't
live with that, why not enjoy your singlehood?[/b]
continue to give selflessly (which i did!) and continued to be
deceived?
you think you can accept a married woman (who lied to you that she
is single outrightly) as gf, and kept lying to you and kept
stringing you along? But when you call it quits, she asked to come
back, but when you said you need time to think, she threatens you
with another man how he seducing her and chasing her? tell you she
want to see you tomorrow cos she is so lonely, but if you dont see
her, she may give in to her loneliness and be with that man.
If you think you can accept such a woman, good luck to you.
If you can walk your talk, then talk your talk.
