dreamykite SG sometimes love is selfish one lah. one just like full attention from their partner. if one find lack of attention fr their partner, one will get angry and maybe break off
jojobeach SG Depends on what kind of friendship they maintain. One of my partner ex.... very good friend... she would chit chat with my partner on msn about her family.. kids... old friends... never bother to meet up. This one.. I don't mind. one ex.. very good friend... calls my partner up in the middle of the night.. want to commit suicide because her new beau left her... wants my partner to go rescue her from karaoke..because she getting drunk... wants my partner to pick her up because she couldn't get a taxi because in Jurong... This one... I'd rather she gets ship off to Africa. one ex... my shopping partner... sister in crime.. yah.. we compare notes... not bad... This one.. no problem. one ex.... very good friend... always borrow money from my partner.. because she couldn't pay off her debt.... but when got money.. always pretend no money.... This one, I wish she marries a rich guy. one ex..... very good friend...we both know she can be very good friend .. because she is les.... This one.. my partner don't like me to be too friendly with her. So really depends on what kind of frienship they maintain lah......
*bluee SG i have nv neglect him... everytime he needs someone to support him, i will be there... even b4 he got to ask me...
*bluee SG hmmm... maybe loh... my past r/s was more than 6yrs, but current r/s has been 2++yrs liao leh... bcos i think it doesn't really matters to keep ex at friend level, so i naturally tot that he wun mind too, therefore in this case, i might have been insensitive towards his feelings for this instance...
darkhour SG u say clean cut better...but isit reali clean cut?i mean...in singapore esp, such a small country, u may meet another person easily esp if u all live in the same area...in the end one day u might see him talking to that girl who he has a clean cut with n get angry over it when he actuali juz saw her on the streets... remaining as frens doesnt mean ur sharing him with her...it can b like the rest of his female frens...unless ur those who dun like him to b arnd any of his female frens even as a grp with other guys... in this case it can b still considered a clean cut depending on how u see it...he has a clean cut with her of any r/s being more than frens...but on how u say it, u seem to want him to haf a total sever of all ties with her...can ppl reali cant b frens anymore after they break up?
darkhour SG wah...u got long lasting r/s....current one 2yrs++ liao...he still cant trust u enuf yet arh?hmm...aiyz its like that de bah...some guys feel more possesive over their mates...dun wanna take chances mah
rainee SG Hmm, I think it depends on individual ba, some people are weaker or maybe there are problems in the rs to begin with, hence when they meet someone better out there, they would be easily swayed and seduced...This applies for both guys and girls la... For me, I have full confidence in my dear's devotion...
AndrewPKYap SG as long as it doesn't lead to resentment on your part years down the line... as long as you don't, whenever the two of you quarrel say things like... "You don't know how much I sacrifice for you...." Whatever decision you make, there are consequences/rewards but you cannot see it nia...
Zarks SG i dun mind cuz im doin the same thing contacting my ex LOL ! If realy break up bcuz of this then break lor... its not like theres no other gal left... sigh.. b practical la.. if u dun believe your partner then no worth to be together la.. sigh kids
selfobliged SG I do mind…Let bygones be bygones. I would ask him back, what if I still contact with my x, how would he feel…
icyboiz SG same. yes, u all might sae its about trust, but sometimes its the their's ex who go over the line, and yr bf/gf have no choice like bu hao yi si reject or wadever thing depend on situation.
Itachi SG my girl just left me for her ex.. couldn't get over him after a yr.. now he wans her back n they r both happily together... me... still depressed n probably trying to get over this... but i still contact my ex.. er.. i mean.. the one b4 her.. n still contact her oso..
