I think i am crazy. Help~!~!

last SG · 2007-07-25T20:01:23+00:00

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addicted.siao SG

Hi all,

Just wanted to sound out something that have been hidden inside my heart for a period of time.

1st of all i am a happily married man with a 19 months old son.

i love my wife and son alot. Have been working really hard to provide them the best of all. Everything have been going well till 1 fine day i went to prositution.

I turn out to be addicted and keep thinking about her. I know its IMPOSSIBLE.
But truth is that i am really addicted. Told my friends about it and they just thought i am joking. I really wanted to stop all this nonsene and be my old self.

But how?

I need serious advice on this.

Thanks for your advice.
addicted.siao

de_middle SG

oh no Sad

do u think of ur wife & children often now Question

hondapons SG

talk to family? like bro/sis?

or bring family to holiday for long period?

Darkness_hacker99 SG

When you want to visit prostitudes, think of your wife and child. Your act is making the family to split apart. Imagine your wife and your child is crying because you broke their heart.

You could be at risk because the prostitude may have AIDS or STDs. Condom doesn't not protects you 100%.

Stop visiting the prostitudes. And if possible, go do STD test at hospitals.

allentyb SG

cut off your penis

problem solved

Rolling Eyes

jojobeach SG

Originally posted by addicted.siao:
Hi all,

Just wanted to sound out something that have been hidden inside my heart for a period of time.

1st of all i am a happily married man with a 19 months old son.

i love my wife and son alot. Have been working really hard to provide them the best of all. Everything have been going well till 1 fine day i went to prositution.

I turn out to be addicted and keep thinking about her. I know its [b]IMPOSSIBLE.
But truth is that i am really addicted. Told my friends about it and they just thought i am joking. I really wanted to stop all this nonsene and be my old self.

But how?

I need serious advice on this.

Thanks for your advice.
addicted.siao[/b]

It is not Impossible.
Prostitutes are humans.

Obviously , everything has not been going as well as you would wish.
Hence the reason why you went to the brothels in the first place.

You may likely be feeling neglected of your needs because of the sudden change in your life.

A baby is a huge and sudden change.

Men, unfortunately are the ones that has a harder time adjusting to this change.

The lady you have paid sex with, probably is your way of escaping the stress of your new family life.

Please be reminded that the safety of your health if utmost important right now.
Can you imagine if you caught STD/AIDS.
What will happen to your wife and young child ?

If you pass on the disease to your wife, the child will be very pityful.
Your wife will be heart broken and her life will be ruined.

Your addiction is a phase you need to wean off.
If you really love your family. You know that every visits to the paid service means upping the risk of you losing your family.

Setting your priority straight , and forcing yourself to walk the right path is the only way you can steer yourself back.

Uncertain SG

y did u go into prostitution in the first place? ur wife cannot satisfy ur sexual need is an excuse... u can always pcc. my advice: stop going there anymore... spend more time with ur family... anyway better go and c a doctor.... if u got STD dun pass it to ur wife Evil or Very Mad

addicted.siao SG

I think about them all the time.

I do not have any close brother or sister to talk to.

Thanks for your health advice. Apperciated.

Go cut yours and i will cut mine. numb skull.

Just stick to topic.

The reason i went to brothel is because 1 of my friend bring me to experience it.

I been married for 8 years. Not because of my new family then i encounter this kind of stress.

Thanks for your health advice.

Any advice to wearn off this kind of addiction?

Xtrider SG

Go for a holiday with ur family. U need to spend more time with them to get ur priorities right again

jojobeach SG

addicted.siao,

U know how drug addicts wean off ?
They go cold turkey.

You know how your baby wean off bottles or boobs ?
They don't get any for a while.

Your friends bring you for the experience ??
What experience ??
Having sex is nothing new to you.

Having sex with different woman is nothing new to you.
Unless you married while a virgin ??

Please lah.. your friend wants to sin.. they don't need to drag you down also right ?

Uncertain SG

Go bonk a chicken (i literally mean it)... u will have a new experience Laughing

Ok Ok want to wear off ur addiction... the remedy is time... just avoid the brothel, stick with ur family all the time... then eventually u will get over it. Sexual urges is due to a chemical named dopamine created in ur brain... so stop thinking about sex will reduce its count....

Patrik SG

Stop mixing with that friend.

ndmmxiaomayi SG

Spend more time with your family.

SingaporeMacross SG

It is good that you have realized your mistake. If you want to get professional help for breaking your addictions, you can go to the Community Addictions Management Programhttp://www.camp.org.sg/makeAppointment.cfm. They have trained counsellers.

On another note, please stop visiting the brothels. The more you feed your addiction, the worse it will get. And please see a doctor. Go for an HIV test, abstain from sex until you are clear.

Stay away from bad influences. If you hang out with crap, you will become like them in time to come.

Think about your wife and kids. Do you want to let all your hard work go to waste because of one mistake? Stop this now.

CannyOng SG

Go take up a religion!

Seven_Dragon SG

occupy yourself with lots of activities...
working, jogging, swimming, sleeping, playing with your kids, watching dvd, gym, watching movies with wife etc... come to sgforums more often... a lot of cute and funny people to chit-chat

sooner and later, you will forget about that unhealthy activity!!!

Take care, bro Surprised

BrUtUs SG

wat u like abt it? do u n ur wife got regular sex? if u relai wan to quit go see counsellor... pls go for health chk b4 u touch ur wife.. dun spread the disease to ur family...

ispyyy SG

lol... think u have stated yr situation too serious...
If I m not wrong, u only went to prostitution tat once and only...
If the assumption above is true, u r not addict...

For most guys, usually if it is yr first time, it will be the most enjoyable 1 but after which it will slowly die off... tat is human nature lah... But the more u surpress yrself, the more u think tat u addict...
I m not here to encourage u to go but here to explan yr situation to u if the above assumption is correct...
There are ways to stop it... Probably, u need to find those with experience to talk to... They will share their experience and hopefully it will virtually fill up yr rest of yr urge to go again to tat kind of place...
But, pls find people who willing to help u to tell u the experience .... dont find those tat arouse yr interest and need yr accompany to go again... lol ><

FireIce SG

din know u married….....

Sakuraflower SG

Just stop the addiction!!!

u know there is something wrong!!!

Rolling Eyes U HAVE A FAMILY AND A BABY