For what I read here, I think he likes u, but for his own
personal reasons, he refuses to commit. Now, ask urself this. Are u
willing to accept someone who refuses to commit because of possibly
his previous relationships or whatever reasons he come out with? Do
u find it just a little strange that he should not want to make a
committment to u, despite being single?
If he says he is still hurting from his previous relationship, that
just show that he is an indecisive man who cannot let go of his
past, and not yet ready to step into the future. Do u want this
type of guy to be ur bf?
If he refuses to make a committment, and yet makes u feel like u
are his gf, then maybe its time to make a stand. Because its
obviously unfair to u that u have 2 sit and wonder just what are u
in his heart, while he refuses to make a committment, and yet at
the same time, sweet-talk u and make u hope.
Its all up to u really. If u like things as it is now, then leave
it as it is. If not, ask him again. Ask him if he sees u two having
a future together, or is he just treating u as someone to pass time
away. Its for ur own happiness. Rather than waste time and think if
he wants in or out of this relationship, sorting it out with him
a.s.a.p is better.
