my boyfriend always tell me about other people's problems,
especially after a good night out.
manyatimes, we are out to chill out after a hard and stressful days
from work. and towards the end of the night, and we are both happy,
finally forgotten about all the worries and stress about work and
many others, he tells me his worries about others, like his friends
who quarrelled and etc.
tonight he tells me again. been having very stressful and political
working environment for months. after a hard day of work, we went
to chill out. had fun and was happy. on the way home, he tells me
about his sister's problems. i was so sian. after hearing, i told
him, how much can you worry? before anyone breakdown, you'll be the
first to breakdown, or maybe me. cos he has his own problems to
worries and others' problems. cos i have to worry about my own
problems, his problems, now i m burdened by his worries of others
problems. i wasnt happy. and he said, maybe i shouldnt tell you so
much.
i m so vexed, cos i really wake up to all reality, all the stress
of life and work, after much effort (ie one whole nite's effort to
relax). what should i do?
