Actually he is not gossiping, he is genuinely concerned about
them. Actually i dont mind offering him a listening ear, but it
seems too frequent. Like last night, after we talk about our day
(including concerns and problems) we were chilling out listening to
music, and he starts frowning thinking aobut one of his friends.
then i told him, there is a time to think, a time to work, a time
to worry, but there should also be a time to enjoy and relax. he
managed to not think about that. but later, again with his sister's
problems after a great night. it was such a spoiler and brought me
back to this stressful and worry-loaded world.
sigh
today i woke up, not feeling like seeing him or talking to him. i
felt good after the rest, but thinking of interacting with him
makes me think of all the problems again. i dont know what to do
now.