now i choose to be a uncaring jerk, than to be a considerate
guy, because it is better for me, this way, at least i don't need
to hear another person, whining and complaining, i don't mind
another girl to whine to me, but i mind a girlfriend whine to me
all the time,
to be honest, her problem can be easily solved, and i don't
understand how could this small problem could cause her so much
agony, i have a female online friend, who is suffering from
depression and on medication all the time, and she attempt suicidem
till now she is struggling with day to day life, compare this
problem with hers, this is really nothing
after all, most of thing, woman whine or complain, they just need a
listening ear, they already knew what they need to do, after all,
woman are smarter than man, i don't understand, why people can't
shut their mind, while listening to whining or complaining, it will
makes thing alot easier,
how about i put it in a simple way for you to understand, it is
easy to show sympathy to others, but it is hard to show empathy to
the person, half of the time, can you really understand what the
person is feeling, or feel what is the person is feeling, right
now, i really had to waste my time, on such a simple problem, which
is why, i ask about, how old is TS and her boyfriend, if they can't
communicate with one another, then what is the point of being
together, is it because the woman is already got used to one
another, and she is in the comfort zone?
to be honest, i don't give a damn to her, and i don't need to show
any sympathy to her also, as this is just a common problem in any
relationship, how long, has she and boyfriend been together, 1
year? for goodness sake, this is just another whining thread, she
probably knows what she needs to do, just that, maybe she need a
push in the back to do the right thing.
And what is the right thing? have a conversation with her
boyfriend, tell him that she has her own needs as well, and if he
is not there for her, then what is the point of being in a
relationship, its ok, that you spare a thought for your friend, but
there must be a limit to everything, you must sort your
priority,
don't babysit a boy, look for someone who can takes care of your
needs, if this is not simple enough for you to understand, then FFS
what do you want?
IF YOU DON'T KNOW, HOW TO LOVE YOURSELF, THEN HOW DO YOU LOVE
OTHERS?????
