Dear Bearie,
Can i ask how old are u?
Let me tell u this straight, u are playing this "game" totally the
wrong way.
Any healthy relationship needs to have intimacy. Why are you not
giving in?
Lets say u reject intimacy with ur bf, how do u reject him? A slap
in the face? A straight No answer? A push away?
Rejecting intimacy are not signs of healthy relationship.
What u need to do is to seduce him, but not give in. I
repeat,
"Seduce him, not give
in"
How to do it? Guys can crazily attracted to girl who to do, lemme
teach u,
- If he wants to french kiss u, u hug
him and kiss him on the cheek. Whisper to his ear, "next time
darling"
- If he wants a hug, touch his neck and give him a scrub on the
head.
- Smile and him, bite your lips, play with your hair and walk
away.
- Remember, always tease him, seduce him and love him.
Else if u are just gonna say NO and give him black face, he is
gonna be very hurt too. Rmb, guys are sensitive too.
Your signs and reactions keep showing tht u are not progressing the
relationship with him.
Since u are treating him as a friend, he is treating u back as a
friend loh...
Do u really think that by sending cute smses and go out "walk walk"
every weekend is gonna improve the relationship? This actually will
only reach point of saturation sooner or later.
Remember, u want a guy to be attracted to u. U have to be
attractive, seductive, playful, suggestive.
Nobody wants to love an unfeeling dead fish. I hope u learn this
lesson.
