Guys, im new here. A fren recommended me to post my woes as i
needed advise on my future steps.
Here's my story.
I meet my gal when we were in secondary school. She was one of my
close frens at 1st, and slowly, my feeling for her grew.
I pluck enough courage to ask her be my gf, bute rejected it. I
persue her for 6 months, and finally we got together.
Like all relationships, there's bound to be highs and lows in
it.
I'm someone hu cant manage my anger well. So wad happen was,
everytime we quarrel, i would threathen to break up. It wasnt
intentional, as my mind was not in a stable state to tink properly.
Jealousy and miscomunication from both party also played a big part
in it. However, through it all, we lasted 11 months together.
3 months ago, she went to some camp which i didnt wan her to go. I
was furious at her the point of time for no particular reason.
After the camp, we had a big quarrel, and she wanted a time- out. I
couldn't accept it, and i flared up again. I knew i shouldn't
flare, but it juz happen.
The time-out turned out to be a break. She broke up with me during
the time out. Her new found friends occupies all her time.
She refuses to reply to my messages, nor on msn neither.
It has since been 3 months, and she seems to be enjoying life while
im suffering here. i cant forget the feelings and love i had for
her, unlike how she has, or claimed to have .
Can any1 tell me whats the possible scenarios or steps i should
take? i realli love her. Help me with some wise words of advise
pls