Disheartened with my personal life

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pete_parker SG

Ever since my previous relationship ended 4 years ago, my personal life all this while has been in a pathetic state of slump. Many times after work, I would feel that déjà vu sense of awful loneliness as most of my colleagues have someone to meet whilst Ill just be heading home as usual. Sometimes I would bump into old classmates and see them happily shopping with their gf, whilst I would have to lie about meeting someone later when Im actually just shopping alone. On weekends and special occasion like Xmas, everyone would have someone special to be with, everyone apart from me

Ive been asking myself quite a few times just whats wrong with my life or am I doing something wrong?

Sometimes I even ponder if Ive been cursed or what?! Its like these few years, I cant seem improve the state of my relationship life, no matter what I do.
Each time I see a gal I like, I would tell myself to give it a short better to fail than regret not trying right. But for some inexplicable reasons, even after knowing each other for some time, she would never seem to call or sms me on her own. Even when I initiate contact, for example sms-ing her, the response is usually somewhat slow & the reply short (like how u would treat someone u dont rely care about).
Whilst she does not detest me and we even meet up occasionally, I know I dont mean much to that her. Unless I keep on contacting on my own, I would just gradually fade away from that persons life.
And this kind of scenario repeats itself continuously over all the different relationships i've tried to develop these few yrs.

Darkness_hacker99 SG

Crying or Very sad

Feel sad for you and for myself.

but.. Money is the most practical thing. Smile

Tian Long Jiu Bu SG

Agree fully abt wad u say. Even if u v ugly like Wiliam Hung, as long as u are rich, there will be alot ger who like u. But.. If u are vv handsome but poor.. No1 would like u.. Unless some ger wana booked u lo.. Money give gers the first impression Evil or Very Mad

Cool-gal SG

sorry to say tat, but are u a sociable or humorous person??
gals do not like boring guys.

gigabyte14 SG

i go kill mary jane tml

mistyblue SG

U back pete?

Don't be dishearten. Stay positive and cheery. Do believe and always believe, things will pick up. If you feel down all the time, you will miss the opportunities because you keep looking down and not looking out.
Do go and enjoy activities to keep your mind fresh and shift your thought to look out for things enjoyable in your life ahead. Keep thinking you will meet that someone and you better look good and positive when you meet her so that you catch her eyes. And my friend, the way to it is not to mope.

Friends are always around.

jojobeach SG

How did you live your life B4 your girlfriend ?

Do you come across as someone happy with yourself ?
Nobody likes a somber soul.
Because a somber person means excess baggage.
Problem with a capital P.

You gotta pick yourself up first, before any girls will be willing to pick you up.

Suck it in, tomorrow is a new day !!

akinos SG

Sleep on that problem. Women are aplenty.

Enjoy urself, live ur live to the fullest.

Think broader!

missqi SG

*hugs
read a book

beavan SG

go clubbing.
go play soccer.
go run.

just go do smt.

Båseline SG

Got to hang out with friends than to stay alone at home and drown at ya own 'sorrows'.

Hang out with quality and not quantity friends that really listens to you and to those who are likely to bring positive vibes ard the circle.

If you feel for the decent amt of time she isn't someone u feel connected with... or vice versa... u can't force the unwilling dun u? After all, it takes 2 hands to... *clap clap*

Now, another reason why going out often with friends is good cos there's a chance u'll widen ur social circle. Friends introduce u to another friend and hey... there might be someone u may be of intrest to u.

Scania N113CRB luver SG

i rather kill Ugly Betty , pollute my eyes . Laughing

Scania N113CRB luver SG

Not true really . Also , by thinking that as long as you are rich , girls will like you , u are making urself gullible . Infact , u made them lusting for ur money .

Let me ask you this , Would u rather die alone with ur assets intact . Or,

Would you like to die alone , with nothing left . Died a poor bloke ?

Think again . Smile

siongbat SG

u gotta lower yr expections a little.........not pretty but ok looking jus whack liao

mai tu le ......chong arrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Devil1976 SG

This one makes plenty of sense.

de_middle SG

awww.......pat pat, ain't that bad.....u haven't met ur mate yet so dun feel so sad......cheer up Wink

Bontakun SG

May I ask what is/are your goal/s in life? What do you want to do?

AndrewPKYap SG

until you meet the right one, so don't give up....

MiX Metal SG

Yes when u're rich there will be alot of girls around you. But ........ whats their reason with you ?? Do they really love you for who and what you are or are they simply just after what you have in your bank a/c ?? Whats even sadder than not having a g/f. Having a g/f that don't loves you at all....... Sad

ispyyy SG

No need to ponder... u r confirm cursed. Cursed by yr previous 4yrs relationship in yr point of view. A person who always look in the bright side will always bring happiness and joy to people around him but a person who always look in the dark side will always bring sorrow and sympathy to people around him. Whether u cursed or blessed, it depends on how u look at it.

Well, whenever, I go for a wedding dinner, I will feel like what u feel... But however, whenever, my married friend chio me to go for gambling trip, I will lol deep inside my heart... Coz, they must be back home by 6pm ... Laughing
And then, being Twisted Evil , I always tempted them to continue to stay... ><
Or sometimes, when they r gambling, I will bring out their going to be born baby topic to remind them and stress them... ><
I sounds evil ,rite???
Actually, it is not that bad lah... Depends on how u look at it and also u need to have a wider social life... U will find tat there are actually many many guys that share the same fate as u ... In SGforum, already have many liao... :p

For me, there are many things to achieve in life other than love...