I'm not talking about imaginary problems. What I'm saying is, if
you're not so intelligent, sometimes you won't even see problems
when they're right in front of you. And as I said, some problems
don't have solutions, and some problems don't need solving - they
just disappear on their own.
Yes, good thinking skills can help you to get out of the fix. I
only said this
Even if you learn how to think properly, not everyone is the
same as you. You may be able to avoid putting yourself in a fix,
but you can't prevent others from putting you in a fix
because you said "you might not even get into the difficulties
in the first place".
Is it possible to know what is wrong without knowing what is right,
or is there a 'right' in the first place?
If "nobody is perfect" is a lousy excuse for having poor thinking
skills, why is it that today there are still so many people with
poor thinking skills?
Going back to the topic on "love", you can try to 'rationalize
love', or have terrific thinking skills to know what to do when you
run into problems that are love-related. But love is a very
overwhelming emotion. Even if you have written several books on
relationship advice, you might not be able to do what you know
you're supposed to do when the problem comes. Love is blind - love
is blinding too.