hi there

kiss_my (_i_) SG

get use of it ba...
this is so fcuking normal unless otherwise stated Laughing

de_middle SG

its hard to control feelings, but to actually fall for someone whom u have never met is kinda strange.

jojobeach SG

It is up to you and her to make it a reality.

StarPuppy SG

just a question..what make u so sure..that she isn't a HE?

Confused

mistyblue SG

That someone VK?

Nope. Lots of people develop good impressions about other parties over internet chats.

gunner77 SG

u ask urself whether u 'like' or 'love' her

btw.. its possible

coffeeortea SG

u think this is eurotrip or something?

dbowie SG

if its not from nigeria or russia, [i]yes/i],its possible.

rainee SG

It is possible, I experienced it before...my dear and I met through online before meeting each other in real life. We were already a couple before meeting up with one another Wink

It is okie to fall in love with someone online, but you gotta ask yourself: Where do you see this rs going in a year time? 5 years time? Is there any concrete plan being made to meet each other? And have to warn you, that there are many instances when an online couple finally meet up, they find that they could not click with one another as well as when they were online.

Meet up as soon as possible if you are serious about her. Find out whether she is serious or not as well. If she is serious, she will come and meet you.

But since she is so young, there is a chance that she is not. Be prepared for that...

coffeeortea SG

genius genius!

ispyyy SG

>.<

rainee SG

? Laughing

rummage SG

your partner is of a foreign country?

G.I. Lim SG

That which u speak of cannot be love... It is at most just a normal crush.

Love is shared experiences between the couple.. through the good and bad times. Other than chatting online, how much do u know about this girl? Without meeting up real-life, having face to face conversations and observing her body signs, how much of what ur imagination has come up with is true?

The Internet is just a virtual world, the feelings u have now are just what your overactive imagination cooked up from the text exchanged..

Unless u guys meet up in real-life, everything remains in this wonderland.
I do not kid you.

gigabyte14 SG

hmm...

rainee SG

I am a Malaysian, my dear is a Singaporean Very Happy Currently still living in Malaysia, but looking into moving to Singapore soon Embarassed Mr. Green

But when we met online that time, I was still studying in US. But met him right away after I got back Smile

Short Ninja SG

She is 15 and you are??

darkhour SG

haha same situation here...im in singapore n my gf is in msia...thru online we met n we r a couple alrdy but havnt met yet...

i totally agree with u on this...as to TS....for me n rainee at least ours live on neighbouring countries now...US is VERY far...if TS reali wants to haf this r/s going on u seriously got to make plans to meet up soon...n i mean soon...coz problems might arise...for me?problems arise duno how many times liao for the meetin part so, better prepare...

for me we havnt met yet so im not very sure abt the after meeting part...but we haf called each other alot...seriously, msia n singapore so close liao but my bills can still chalk up to arnd 1.5k in 5 mths...TS is america...seriously u got to see if u can maintain this r/s....not being able to talk all the time can b hard esp for a new r/s n times when u reali need the other...

another problem is ur future with each other...staying online, without living with each other is very different from after u live with each other...haf u all discussed on whr do u all wanna live?seriously it matters alot...i nearly quarreled with my gf once due to this coz i wanted to stay in singapore while she wants to live in another country...lifestyles n cultures in different places r very different...has she come here b4?or haf u gone to america b4?to know n to live a life there is very different...esp when its for life, u might not get used to it...

i repeat, money is definitely an issue in a long distance r/s....shes onli 15, i dun tink she has the financial capabilities to contact u often or go over to ur side to meet u anytime soon...as for urself, can u make the time n money to go over often?msia n singapore n near n we r not havin a smooth time handling the money issue...u sure u can?

also, shes onli 15...not that i like to consider maturity n age together, but does she reali want to spend her life with u?isit worth spending all the time n money on this r/s?seriously spking if me n my gf were in further countries, we wuld haf broken up or not even started this r/s...love is one thing, practicality is another...u cant juz say u die die muz stay in this r/s bcoz u love her...if u cant live tgt in the future, cant meet each other or even stay in contact for long, its juz gonna end up in greater misery for both of u...

Kuali Baba SG

*Tumbles in*

Mr. Green

darkhour SG

y u so xtra one Laughing

« Previous Page Next Page »