hisoka SG and now's the chance to get back with her again. but then who betrayed who first when break?
kiss_my (_i_) SG two reson she call you.. 1, she got no1 to talk to, and u once her closer 1.. and this is the best timing to chase her back, if this is wat u want.. 2, she treat u as a sparetyre, only call whenver she need help..
SpecOps87 SG U ARE NO LONGER THE BF. U ARE JUST A FRIEND. REMEMBER THAT. I WAS IN SUCH A STAGE, THOUGH SHE WASN’T IN AS BAD A SHAPE….BUT ONCE BITTEN TWICE SHY…MEN AREN’T THE ONLY CUNNING ONES THESE DAYS
Bontakun SG Many here have given you good comments: like being a simple listening ear to her and such. If she cannot afford to use computer to email you or something, ask her to write mail. I am sure that will be cheaper than long distance call. If you are unable to give advice to her, then don't give advice to her. Sometimes out of desperation she will take your advice literally and apply it, WHICH may result in something both you and her do not wants. Being a simple listening ear is already good enough for her to whine and complain for she needed to let steam off. If she wants some answers or comments. You can then tell her to give you some time to think about it and get help. Just don't assume her relationship with her current boyfriend is on the rocks and you think you may have a chance to get back to her. Really, you may suffer anxiety over nothing concrete. Just relax and do the best you can: listen to her and comfort her with simple 'oks' and 'orhs'. That is good enough to assure her. Beers!
ninefold9 SG Be a good listener, but don't get youself too involved to the extent where you maybe forced to resort to go around borrowing money trying to resolve her problems. Everybody has problems including you & me. Your ex-GF will need to find her own solutions. The wealthy, the poor, the intelligent and not so intellgient - all have their own problems; that is part and parcel of living in this world. Take good care of yourself by not allowing an ex-GF's problems to affect your studies, work and personal happiness. Good D'ai mate
SpecOps87 SG Really leh...nowadays...call me a skeptic...but seriously...alot alot of girls these days...are like Ricky Martin's song Livin' La Vida Loca. She took my heart and she took my money...she must have slipped me a sleeping pill. She makes you take your clothes off and go dancing in the rain, she makes you live her crazy life but she'll take away your pain, like a bullet through your brains!
CheHyeon SG Nah I don't think she's that kind of person although betrayal was the theme of our break(not me). I don't see us getting back together again no matter what. Come on dae you've got to give fate a chance, I'm really sure there's awesome girls out there. Just you wait...
CheHyeon SG Yeah I guess the righteous thing I can really do now would be to listen to her. Come to think of it the phone calls didn't go away so I guess that reassures that I'm not doing anything wrong. Any inadequecy would just be my morals chewing my ass to bits. It's the hols down under here so there's no worry about studies or personal life. It's just wake up ---> WoW ----> work ---->sleep ----> rinse and repeat. Boring days come to think about it, this ex-girlfriend thing has really gave me something else to do. To all those great advice out there, thanks y'all
ispyyy SG Her family's been in financial instability for half a year. And then, she still make so many oversea calls to u ??? Ask her to send email lah... email cheaper...
CheHyeon SG Guess it's just my morals telling me to forgive and forget. Nothing benevolent from me seeing that I'm one of those people who wakes up in the morning and have already forgotten what I had for supper last night.
LustyLucille SG Introduce her to brother Zacken. No, I'm not joking. Sometimes it's unfavorable element of the universe at work against her.
