Your signature says: "Darkness is something everyone can feel
and only hypocrites deny."
Indeed. But screw that for now.
I think you need to be straightened up.
With all the bad things the bad boyfriend is doing wrong, why dont
you ask yourself what type of girl would want to be in a
relationship with that kind of person?
You seem to resent her bad boyfriend for all his flaws, which
already proves deep down you, want to have his girl. So dont get
all self-righteous and worked up over being seen as the evil guy
here. Romeo is the guilty one with his cigarette smoking, lousy
lying, church skipping, and d*ck piercing habits. On the contrary,
you are the studious melancholic; a musically inclined, religious
young man filled with pure intentions. Gee. How fancy. Why cant
you just admit the fact that with Juliet here, you harbor ulterior
motives?
Therell be tips from people along the way telling you when to
strike and how to strike. You already know what to do. But no ones
warned you about being the boring rebound guy yet. Why worry about
the old ma and Romeo? All you should be concerned about is Juliets
interest level in you. Sounds like you have a lot of work to do
since thered been no conversation in all 10 years. Then 2 weeks
after you strike, she dates the bad boy. Gee I wonder
what the hell
was your opening line again?
You couldnt play it cool and smart and instead of working on
Juliet, youve been working her mother. Passing the parent test
doesnt mean you pass the attraction test. What have they been
teaching you in church kid?
Why wont she leave the bad boyfriend then? And you are working
your ass off for medal of honor from the old ma she is rebelling
against. Does it make sense now why you aren't the the boy she fell
for?
On second thoughts, why should she leave the bad boyfriend when
shes got him for the loving and you to listen to her
problems?
Juliet has her cake and shes eating it too. 
The good news is, with all that sucking up, you might just end up
with her. The bad news is, only for a while as convalescence. Wont
be long before nutcase Juliet goes tooting off in search for
another bad example to nurture. Its just biological programming
for some females.
As for now, spend more time on other girls, school and grow some
testicles. I hate to visualize an intelligent and sensitive young
man like yourself in the kitchen eating pie with old piano stumping
ma while your peers are out having the time of their lives and
getting to know better quality girls.
Lastly, in spite of all the complication caused by others, all R
and J has to do is switch off their mobiles for half an hour and
slow dance together. I call it minor inconvenience.