Nothing to Do at home

last SG · 2007-05-31T11:14:07+00:00

problem 3 u make me think of her and i'm sad now.

CasperX SG

Hello,

This is my first topic in AA. Have read alot of AA thread ever since i have join sgforums. Well, now its my turn to write now. Not really into BGR though Very Happy

Well, i used to be a gamer, ever since i was 13 (sec 1). I began gaming when i got to know my new classmates from my secondary school. Ever since, i can be call as a gamer, as i play in almost all rpg game in both PSx and SS Console. I even play alot of arcade games, from racing game, shooting game to fighting games. Therefore, i was always the Gaming Boi in my friend's eyes. I have also stuck to Online game at the age of 17, but luckily... I only get addicted to a few games like Pristontale and TsOnline. Even during my Ns, i continue to play game! Either arcade, or home console. As for my BGR, I still have a few girlfriend before, even though I spend most of my time gaming. They understand that gaming is my life and still stay together with me. But they are all history, cause we already broke up. Ok, here comes the Main Point.

Problem#1

I do not know when it starts to happen... but i think i am starting to get tired of playing games, but not giving up. How do i explain this... Example, i am still keen on getting the latest Console (ps3) getting the latest PC Game (C&C3) and also upgrading my com to the highest when possible for perfection in gaming mmorpg. But when i start to play the game i wanted, i grew tired easily... Its not physically tired, its mentally. I can't concentrade on the game that i wanted to play. Therefore, As new games came out, i Still buy them. But they are all played once and left in the shelf. There are still alot of titles that i didn't even touch them yet... lolx.
After my work, i can't find things to do. Try to play game but grew tired. Nothing to surf from Internet also. Not interested in Tv Shows. Thats the problem...How can i kill time?

Problem#2

This is a BGR problem loh, I have this girlfriend that have been together for 3 years coming October. We do not quarrel nor fight. We do not have any problem with each other as well, no major arguements. The problem i THINK i am facing is... lack of topics to talk, lack of activites to do during weekend. And, there are times that I had alot of things to say to her. But when i see her, i juz don't have the feeling to say or explain what ever i wan to say. Don't know whats wrong with me...How can i improve myself?

Problem#3

Now the last problem is with my temper. I can say that i have a short and hot temper. I can get upset and angry when irritated. I can list a very good example... My girlfriend's english's level is not that high, and when she ask me how to spell or whats the maining of a quite basic english word... I will feel irritated about how come she don't know such a basic easy word. And my temper will come and i will not explain to her. Strange of me rite? I have always told myself to change my temper, but its hard for me to control. I do not wish to regret in future, due to my bad temper. How can i control my temple?

Well, thx guys for those who have spend sometime reading all my 3 problems.

Cheers~

allentyb SG

Rolling Eyes

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nothing agony about your post,

simple, exercise self control on your time spent on the net, divert your attention on something else,

you probably is going through a low period with your girlfriend, perhaps, you could find something to do together with your girlfriend

if you are hot temper or trigger happy, have you serve finished your NS? before you are going to blow your temper, tell yourself, there is nothing in this world, is needed for me to throw my temper.

if you really want to find something to kill time, then why not, do something useful, buy yourself a pet or do some charity work, or maybe spend more time with your girlfriend, or when she is gone, you will regret that you didn't spend more time with her at all

elindra SG

Problem #1
You can get burnt out playing games (this coming from a gamer. I need breaks from WoW too)
Take a break and go out
Spend time with your gf or something
Read
Take up a hobby like maybe model cars or robots

Problem #2
Read the newspaper for topics to talk about
Learn something new together
Go to a new resturant or a new park together
Watch a movie and talk about it
Just spend time bonding

Problem #3
Is yr temper due to too much gaming
i get irritated when ppl talk to me in the midst of a game too
If not count to 3 and tell yourself to be more patient coz she is afterall trying to improve herself

RiverFoX SG

1) good dat u've grown tired of it...
at least u cn save money by not buyin anymore games...

2) is there any common hobby dat u 2 do together?
there is somethin that bonds the 2 of u...

3) try to accept her flaw...
either u did or u didn't know when u went on with her...
so just accept it...
she's afterall still tryin to learn rite?

Mr. Green

CasperX SG

Maybe to you, its not agony cause you are not the one experiencing it. I guess you mis-read, i don't spend time much time on the net.

I am trying to find something to do, and u still ask me to find something to do. lolx.

I have long finish my NS 3 years ago >.> And i am still trying to control my temper.

Its a waste of money in getting a pet and i have totally no interest in a pet. Are there Charity Work at night? We only meet during weekends.

Its not that i need a break or something, I still have the interest in playing games, but my heart can't go on. I hate books and to me, keeping model cars or robots are a waste of space and money. Thats my IMO.

Ya, we do read up newspaper. There ain't new resturant or park in singapore you know, we ran out of places~ No good shows to watch for movies Shocked

I don't know if the past gaming have created my current temper or not, cause i don't game much now but my temper is still the same persistance. I will try the count to 3 method. Smile

I have grown tired of games, but not my interest. The major problem is i still continue to buy new titles and console. Upgrading of com for gaming but i am not playing them @[email protected]~

No, we don't have a common hobby.

Ya... I accept her flaw but i juz can't control myself Crying or Very sad

huiz SG

how about going on a short trip overseas, maybe nearby countries? bring your gf along too.

zeny SG

Since nothing works how about going for a road trip?

0°C_Serenade SG

Write love letters to her..explain all in there

buy her an electronic dictionary.

CasperX SG

We don't have the time for a short trip, working and studying makes us not free for a trip.

I am spending my weekend with my girlfriends, where to play soccer and basketball during the nite? (After work)

I try emailing, but I don't know how to write, even though i know how to write :S

It seems you mislead yourself somewhere, its not about her english... Its my temper.

hiphop2009 SG

hmm. i think gaming has affected u ba. first, i suggest u control and cut down on gaming. den u will realise all other problems will be solved. this is a domino effect =)

dreamykite SG

I suggest you stop playing game and maybe just get a pt job. Gaming too much hurts your brain.

CasperX SG

Oh no~ you guys did not read properly or i did not express well myself. hmmm

I have already stop gaming (not totally though) I can't concentrade on a game, when i start playing a new/old game, i will juz play and stop very soon. Its like those... san fen zhong ri du. U know? Despite this problem, i am still continuing to purchase new release games...

And, i already working full time. @[email protected]~

omron SG

one of the reason u are short temper is becos of gaming, all the killing and fighting makes u flare up easily in real life, try to go out more often so that u have less time to touch the comp and ur addicition will be lesser.

Set a goal in life, u are at a phase where u don't know wat to do becos u have not goals in mind. Set a goal, like wan to earn $x amount of money or become a CEO of a company and work towards it, u will then live a more fulfilling live. Period.

yihao93 SG

nth to do? no topic rite? teach her english Mr. Green
1 tthing settle all 3 prob Laughing

huiz SG

not even free to go malaysia or nearby islands? for half a day during weekends?

by the way, what type of activities do you like? eg activities that:

- make you move and sweat?
- make you think?
- simply let you enjoy, dont need to think too much?
- need patience? gives you a sense of accomplishment upon completion?
- need to do hands-on work?

if you can tell us, it would better for us to suggest activities that you can do....

acegem84 SG

Adios to the guy with agony.... juz my 5cent worth of advice.....

Problem#1 - solution : com upgrades r nvr ending...buy 1 gd 1..last it for 3 yrs...den bury it... same for games...buy cheong 1 .....den bury it once ure sick of it... no pt getting console ...unless u get smth interactive like nintendo wii...can play games with ur gf....

Problem#2 - Solution : get to noe ur gf better...like so call 'unlearn n relearn' wat her likes n dislikes..... @ least she'll get to noe dat ure putting in effort to understand her...

Problem#3 : this 1 ...really up to u ...nt body can change u ....bt u can n will learn to ctrl ur temper 1 ....

spycampers SG

Me still play arcade game..VF4 tekken 5.. KOF... etc.
and i am 28.

so is that a problem?
i dun think so..
each have his /her own hobby.
some ppl can spend hours on golf,
soccer. blogging... etc.
but i find myself settle for gaming..
and my wife also join me in arcade also.
once in a while.

as for nothing to do at home.
how about just open ur door and get out of it..
find something useful to do??

acegem84 SG

shi fu! i also KOF~ cheap lor KOF in camp...20 cents nia....

shendia0 SG

0.0 your personalities and mine are exactly the same except for the age and the gf part.

The way i changed my temper is after my gf broke up with me. After that break up i've not only changed my temper i had changed how i treasure my gf.

I am not asking you to get a breakup or whatsoever just trying to say if you don't start to know your gf more and when it really disastrous. You'll cry uptill today i still miss her =( The phrase time will heal, it doesn't it will numb you make you forget things, eventually you will still remember them.

ghimpheng SG

find activties to participate =D

and talk about your life experience