Problem#1
This very normal.
As you grow older. Your priority changes. Now you have other
distractions in life.
Take this light heartedly. ok?
Gaming is like s e x .
Gaming is a pleasure.
When you first started, it was a thrill, very pleasureable.
You wanna do it everyday, you commit time to do it.
After a while, you stop committing time to it.
You only do it when you have the time. It becomes a leisure.
It's not that you don't like it , it's not that you don't find
pleasure doing it.
It's just, you grew out of the initial stages of this pleasureable
activity. Now you do it leisurely.
So, very normal.
Problem#2
Lack of topic is common for all relationship.
How many topics can one think of in a life time ?
I mean, you can repeat the same topic over and over again. But it
will get boring.
But take heart, a women don't need a chatter box to make her
happy.
Sometimes spending quiet time with her alone is good enough.
Just don't abandon her and go do stuff on your own too often.
You want her to be your g/f because you want companionship.
You are her b/f because she wants your companionship.
Problem #3
You are starting to take your girlfriend for granted.
Women are easy to please. Just don't threat her like your
mother.
Your mother will tolerate your nonsense no matter what.
But your girlfriend will leave you if you treat her bad
enough.
She will also feel hurt when you belittle her.
She will also feel frustrated when she feels her boyfriend don't
respect her.
Just remember, whenever you lose your temper on your
girlfriend.
You are essentially stabbing a knife in her heart.
Now ask yourself, do you really want to hurt her ?
