My first suspicion is that you did not really get over your
ex-girlfriend.
From the PMs you gave me, I know you will not get over her so
easily.
And as usual, you denied it to death and said that your
ex-girlfriend is history and you are over her.
Now look at what you wrote here,
Let me ask you a simple question.
If you are so over your ex-girlfriend
Why the hell do you
care whether she is still contactable and still living in
Singapore???
Im going to tell it as it is.
You don't love your ex-girlfriend anymore
BUT
You still feel like you deserve a second chance for all the effort
you put in that relationship!
You still feel that that relationship was not supposed to end that
way!
You still want her to be contactable so that one day she will tell
you she is wrong and you are right.
You still have that wrong notion
of how love is supposed to be!
Love doesnt work that way.
You are obsessed with the feeling of being in love.
You dont really love anyone right now.
Not the ex-girlfriend who hurt you.
Not that tirak who ran away without saying goodbye.
You just want that feeling of being in love!
This is why it is so easy for you to think of finding another
substitute!
Any girl who can give you that feeling will do in your eyes. Thats
why Im telling you to avoid GL at all cost!!
You better do yourself a favor and listen to what I tell you. Stop
going there if you want to recover.
In pursuit of that feeling of being in love, you naively gave
everything you have!
Money, attention, your future!
It is time to stop killer.
You are destroying yourself with that false notion of love.
The first step is to save yourself.
Accept and love yourself for who you are. Do things that you want
to do, truly live a life.
Only then will you have the capacity to love someone
else.
Think about it.
