Skibi SG Originally posted by the.owl: If you are serious, I would suggest seeking counselling, probably got psychiatrists for this kind of thing.You are correct. Psychiatrists do provide effective treatment for homosexuals. TS please do not be influenced by the few people in the gay community who want to remain gay. Being homosexual does affect the quality of a person's life, seek help before it is too late. Cheapest option is to get a referral letter from the polyclinic.
kalach SG Seek excellence in everything u do, therefore be the hardest gay! LOLS. Well jokes aside, do u really accept urself as a gay? I had a few friends who were also gay, they accepted themselves so well that they dun even fear to hold hands in the middle of the streets and one of them even cross dress as a female walking on orchard road. if u cant even accept urself as a gay, u arent a gay! it is ur wish on who u like or who u love. Simply, go outside, look for friends, develope ur relationship with them. Most preferable female! It is all about acceptance! Kampateh!
Dong_Fang_Bu_Bai SG Thks bro for ur advice... I am a gay but what make me hate being one is becoz I fear that most of the people out there won't be accepting the way I am... I ask my freind who is very close to me... I asked her whether will she accept that if her freind turn out to be a gay... She told me that, she feel ashamed to have a freind like that... I was very upset when she told me that... Thks again bro
UandMe SG usually girls won't mind having gay frens, ur fren probably an exception. Guys probably won't really be hostile to people like u too, as long as u dun go around asking if u can blow for them..
Lorry` SG Hello Homosexuality is not a disease, you dont need a cure to it. It's just a personal preference when choosin partners. It is NOT wrong and is NOT a sin. First of all, the most important thing is, if you want people, your friends, your family to accept you (as a gay), you HAVE to accept yourself first. Accept for who you are. If you dont even accept yourself, how do you want people to accept you? It's nothin wrong. It's normal. You do not want to be a gay because there are more straight people out there and you are the minority. But so what. Why must care bout people's views? It's a feelin you just like guys, why must make yourself change to like girls instead? (just because it seems like a norm that guys must like girls and girls must like guys and nothin else more) Just follow your heart.... You dont have to tell your parents about it yet for the moment.... (not really necessary) Give yourself time to accept yourself.... You may tell your friends bout you first. Not all are against homosexuality though, maybe it's just your friends.... Hangout with people of the same orientation helps.... source: myself i am one but i prefer girls more instead Dont be afraid of who you are Learn to accept yourself
Bear SG Homosexuality is not even a problem, illness or disease. how to cure when it's not a problem? It's a result from an interaction between nature and nurture. then again, liking a guy doesn't mean you're gay. could be bi...
