twenty47 SG I have always been disorganised and messy. (Well, I am organised in my own ways) I have a gf who loves cleaniness. She wipes her bags, desk and cupboard everyday. now my gf is pissed and ask me what happens when we eventually get married. I know i cant keep up with her standard because i havent been doing such things for as long as i remember.
browniebaobao SG Is she a virgo? She got 'jie pi'.. loves cleanliness. I dun clean my desk, my cupboard etc everyday also.. Is there a need?
walesa SG You're agonising over this? There're 3 feasible options : 1.Be more organised 2.Get her to accept your messiness 3.Change your girlfriend
allentyb SG how agony, could this be? ok since you are still a kid, and probably a teenage look, WAKE UP YOUR IDEA and start to do some personal grooming jesus, does anyone need to do tell you the reason why you need to do so? oh oh wait, i think you must be thinking, it must be so 'cool' to be untidy
laurence82 SG you should be tidier and cleaner for ur own good but anyway, wipes table, bags and cupboardd everyday sounds a bit...urm
twenty47 SG i think i had to be more tidy.. but what was agonising is that she chooses to focus on such meaningless thing and ruin her day and my day rather than to focus on more meaningful things such as how much i care for her in many other ways. btw, for those who viewed my profile and thought that i am a teenager, its false.
RiverFoX SG wow... ur gf gettin ready for bmt ah??? clean everyday... LoL... make it a habit to have a bit of organization... i pack my things sometimes... but most of the time i just give up... LoL... my gf is worst... she's like livin in a pig sty... she comes to my place n mess it up even more.. LoL...
BufPuf SG i dun clean my desk/cupboards everyday. My mum did it for me each week. haha but i can't stand messy layout. At the end of the day after work, i make sure i tidy my desk before i go. File all the things and put away all the documents to other people's tray or where they shd go..make my table as 'paper free' as possible. coz when u start to keep them, it will pile up and up. It get very difficult to find yr things, especiallly when i got to deal with so many papers each day.
twenty47 SG i would love to do that... but seriously speaking, old habits die hard. I dont know how long can i keep up the tidiness. If i tell her I will definitely do all that she ask for, I would be lying to her as well as myself. of course i can try... but i still feel being angry at me doesnt solve anything... being supportive will likely be more constructive, towards changing me and building a better relationship...
