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last SG · 2007-05-01T21:43:06+00:00

physically intimate? TS only say four months of being together every week wat. did he say what they do whilst together? ^_^?

Rock^Star SG

You are worthy of this chance to test her, just like any regular guy. If she passes your test, great. If not, she's not worth it (no matter how hard that would be to stomach).

Rock^Star SG

Well, just put it this way.

If a gal rejects you and avoids you, no chance at all. Absolutely and positively.

If she rejects you and still likes talking to you? Now, that's a big and crucial difference. Her mentality will be, "I can't accept you now but you're too good a guy to be out of my life also."

My $0.02 worth.

dokono SG

TS

can you describe what false signals she showed towards you?

She says you're an important friend but not important enough to be your gf? Why important? Can you ask her these questions? You need to get to the bottom of the matter.

This girl likes to give false hopes. Some girls are like this. Ladies, if you don't like a guy, don't treat him like a plaything, toying a guy's feelings like that. I know most ladies don't do this but some do.

doko

dokono SG

so that's the reason she gives you?

If she likes you and still likes talking to you? she can still treat you as a friend right? Maybe something like TS girl friend?

doko

dokono SG

right.

TwinTurbo_Supra SG

she just treats me as a really good friend but not to the extent of bf/gf.

dokono SG

what are the actions she displayed towards you?

doko

kalach SG

Common, she is just playing with you. I had 2 very great example. One lasted for a year, at that time, she only acknowledge me as her god brother. The best god-brother among all and she will only acknowledge me nothing more then that. She treat me so good to the extend that all guys will definitely thinks that she will give a chance to start a relationship with her. In the end, everything just flunk. Then I got another friend of mine, we were happy and I made clear that I really like her. In the end, she told me off and say that we can only be friends, nothing more then that and she even ask if I took another girl as her REPLACEMENT.

Girls are hard to understand. Good luck!

Isis SG

Well, i think it is really up to you.....

if you can accept the fact that she is not interested in having a BGR and having a firm decision that "we can only be friends", then i think getting together as friends is okay.

But if you can't then, perhaps it is better for you to take some time off to forget about the good times. It will not be comfortable/easy but then it is the right thing to do? Meanwhile, try to explain to her that you need some time off. After there cooling period, still can be friend.

You will definitely love again. Sometime, it is through pain that we learn to even love more and better. Wink

soulwinner SG

Hint her.. Very Happy

viciouskitty74 SG

the last time i heard a guy tells of a girl wanting to stay friends.

1.5 years later, they are married and just had a baby. Rolling Eyes

Shanks23 SG

First ask yourself a question do you love her alot..If you do if you start to avoid her how will you feel..?

If it was me...i will still continue to be her friend..When you like/love a person you
cannot be with. At least you can see her once in a while you know the feeling of that..?
See her smiling at you Happy and playing with you...Thats not a bad thing too...If you can avoid her completely i dont think you love her alot..^^~~

And when you and her are friends you still have the chance remember.. Smile Hope this helps..Reject does not mean she will reject forever..=P Good Luck Bro

SGpork SG

whats wrong being frens..
if lover cannot then be frens lei..
u only want to be lover huh?
that tells so much about u..

Rolling Eyes

soulwinner SG

So.. go tell her your feeling.. Very Happy

TwinTurbo_Supra SG

okay guys I have decided to let everything cool down for about a week first, then I will go talk to her again.

talking to her now just seems awkward.

and thanks everyone for their advice. Very Happy

TwinTurbo_Supra SG

what feeling? I've told her everything already.

Shanks23 SG

Alright Jiayou Hehe^^when she is still single you still have the chance =P..Do things to touch her.. Very Happy good luck

fairlady_xoxo SG

Yup....perhaps when u are lovers and the relationship ends....you may not be the same as before...or worse...you might even lose her? Confused

sumoman1992 SG

._. relax and think it properly ba. if u like her, maybe u shld get over her first, even if u want to chase her, u shldnt be too upset.

binarynwitz SG

When the door is shut, either get a key, or find another door.

Yet some doors do not have a key to open them. Some cannot be unlocked from this side.

But one thing they all have in common, is that they can be unlocked from the other side.

Likewise, you are standing on this side of the door now. Do you belong to the other side?

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