Originally posted by smudgey:
I agree with a lot of what ppl here is saying
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TS your qn was "why is sex still a taboo issue with gals?" But the
real qn should be, Why is sex such a given topic among guys?
Not too long ago, when two ppl get together, sex is not EXPECTED
from one another, in fact it is norm to wait till after marriage,
or 2-3 yrs into the relationship, when their relationships have
reached a certain level
However, now we hear guys whining about their gf not giving in
enough to their desires, or gals whining about the guys
expectations and not knowing whether to submit to them or stand
their ground (and risk losing their bf).
WHY?
[b]Why is it that most guys EXPECT sex in their relationships? Most
say everyone are doing it, its not wrong, we are just expressing
our emotion and commitment to one another.
Not long ago, there was a series of suicide done by jumping in
front of the train, shall we all just go do that too?
"Sex is an expression of your emotions and Commitment to one
another." Is it really? How many relationships break up even after
sex? How many of you married your first? Marriage is an expression
of Commitment not sex.
What other absurd reasons do we have?
ejaculating is the bodys natural way of getting rid of all the
sperm produced.
Well, how did you manage to survive 20-30years without sex in the
first place? If u can survive back then, you can survive now.
TS, I can safely say that your (or your friends) gf is drifting
away because you or your friend have been pressuring her to do
things that she is not ready to do. She gave in, but she does not
feel good about it, so she is standing her ground.
If you or your friend really treasured her, you or your friend
would never have place her in this situation to begin with! If you
or your friend really treasure her now, do not pressure her
anymore, if she wants to end things then let her go. Do not torment
her anymore.
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absolutely right.
it is not wrong for guys to hav lust for and urge to have sex, it
is human nature dat guys are like this. Even girls will agree with
me on this point
however, wad make us the human different from others? it is LOVE
and morals dat differentiate us from other animals. if ur fren
really love her gf, den he should respect her. his gf does nt owe
him anything and she is not obiliged to hav sex with him. a girl is
mos afraid to get pregnant before marriage in this "so called
conservative" society. Your fren hav to understand her more.
as for his own urge, i suggest u ask him go see a pyscologist. or
divert his attention to do more meaningful things with his gf
rather den sex sex sex. sex isnt the only thing dat a dating couple
can do. there are MUCH more meaningful things dat dey can do and
acheive.......
