Getting older and more alone

last SG · 2007-04-14T00:30:33+00:00

we dont even know who you are and we are not interested to. But just by judging from your post, we know you've problem.

Gedanken SG

This is just too damned hilarious. Laughing

MarryMe SG

1)??i tot girls like it? then y she giggle when she see me ar? but cold toward my advances?even her friends tried to push us together but ...

2) so how abt love at first sight?that is called desperate?

3) I might as well go to the streets. Think none of these are the case. Think most probably she wants to wait for a better one. not good/handsome enuf for her.

ShrodingersCat SG

1) giggle can mean paisay, not she interested. And if she interested, she won't be cold liao. AND HOR, if beginning a bit not interested but friends pushing, then waa, for SURE won't develop liao cos of all the pressure. Love is between 2 parties, not the whole world.

2) Love at first sight? *snort* no la.. not desperate. Immature only. You can have LIKE at first sight - but love? Do u know what is love or not? And like at first sight - needs time to know and see and understanding. Plus.. u like at first sight doesnt mean she must respond.

3) See? people tell u honest views, you want to think of other things. Well, then you are right. A guy who thinks he is not good enough for a girl (so he gives up), then i agree sure is loh. Cos he never takes the effort to understand WHY.

4) If you want to believe it is everyone's problem then just have to look around you and see how many normal looking people, with normal character, earnin average pay, having average careers - are attached, married, and settled down.

gigabyte14 SG

soulwinner SG

Where is all gal ?

jojobeach SG

You also act arrogant lor. This way, other girls will give you a second glance.

Girls also likes the "challenge".. those easy peesy males are a bore... yawn~

Give em a chase, give em the thrill of the game.....

Girls just wanna have fun.

elindra SG

I think unless TS reflect and think about his own actions instead of blaming the whole world he can forget about getting a gf.

Simple_Bear SG

Well, he is too absorbed in the mentality that its the gals' fault not his to blame for his lack of female partners...

Rolling Eyes

Gunyandao SG

think instead of TS spending his time complaining in sgforums, he should create a friendster account, update all his profile, put up his best pictures all that.
then in "who you want to meet" just list out what you expect of the kind of gers you want to meet lor.

as for DAO or unfriendly gers.
you go and search for those gers in friendster whose status is single.
then you go and look at the testimonial their friends wrote for them.
like
"this icy pretty princess, looks arrogant and dao at first but is after getting to know her, she is probably the nicest ger i have ever met"
and their friends will write in the testimonial to hint people like you to hook them up like "such a pretty and nice girl but don't know why still single, so guys, what r u still waiting for"
think those r the kind you should be targeting perhaps.

sorry lah.i myself never try before. not sure whether it will work for u.

Simple_Bear SG

Why not join a activity group...

It will be faster this way...

He can learn how to better communicate and interact with gals...

Mr. Green

gigabyte14 SG

he'll surely say he dun like these kinda stuffs Rolling Eyes

Simple_Bear SG

Whats wrong with joining a gp?...

Meet more friends, learn to communicate better with the opp. gender...

Increase your chances...

Who knows, maybe his chosen one is among them.

But then I dun encourage him to go join a gp for the sake of getting hitched...

Go with the mentality of getting to know more friends...

Mr. Green

YouDonKnowMe SG

1) It sounds rather cowardly.

2) It suggest that u do not have a mind of your own (maybe mummy's boy? Anything also may need mama's advice and help? Sounds wussy)

3) What biz has it got to do with that "friend"? Why do u need to go thru that "friend"?

4) Lack sincerity. Sounds like 13 years old tactic instead of behaviour expected fr an adult.

5) Lastly, what do u expect the gal to do? Come up to you and proudly declare, "I Love You" too?

Aww... c'mon! Rolling Eyes

YouDonKnowMe SG

Absolutely agree with SchrodingersCat. Wink

YouDonKnowMe SG

I think those are pretty helpful suggestions

hisoka SG

on the bright side, hes getting alot of attention from girls here Laughing

gigabyte14 SG

lol Laughing

but the girls wan go wif him meh

MarryMe SG

ggb u very good hor?cannot let me enjoy the wisdom of the people here in peace. always got "comments". I learn a lot from reading all the comments. But from u, i learn nothing at all.

KenPlus SG

Wow this thread still ongoing.haha anyway to add on,i think if the girl is ineterested in u,everything will be simple one lah,even if you say one lame joke,she will still laugh to support u,but if she dislike u from the start,no matter what u do,it tough,gd luck to TS to find the right girl,someone will appreciate u lah,but first u have to start to reduced your hated to the girls u met soo far,cause it meaningless to have such thinking and it may affect some other nice girls around whom may be the one??? Right????Not all pretty girls are dao lah,some are quite nice Laughing

Gunyandao SG

i think most pretty gers r nice leh. TS just spend time in friendster going through those chio bus and read what their frens wrote for them in their testimonial.

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