Hi marry me (no pun intended simply because marriage is not in
my cards today),
You've received more than your fair share of advice over here. I am
probably the female rendition of yourself wondering why everyone
else is coupled up on Valentines.
To your problems I have 2 solutions:
Visit www.askmen.com (website for men)
Purchase The System and use it like a bible (a dating system)
As for women, we usually classify men under lover and provider
category. Your history so far indicates you are a Mr Nice Guy type
of provider. Forget that.
Be positive. Women latch on to positive, shameless men who know how
to keep themselves in good shape, know their own worth and aren't
afraid of calling the shots.
Good luck.