Getting older and more alone

last SG · 2007-04-14T00:30:33+00:00

we dont even know who you are and we are not interested to. But just by judging from your post, we know you've problem.

untitledwav SG

You should try watching the movie 'The Train Man'. Maybe you can get some ideas from there. Wink

MarryMe SG

So many comments. really enlightened me. Some are very true while some are utter bullshita. Worthy of mentioning are comments from curiousorange and yunhaier. top of the bullshit list goes to bbb. supposedly the kind of girls I would hate to date.typical young singaporean girls. But nevertheless. Thank you all for the comments. I think it's very true that perhpas I am desperate. not for sex ok? I really would like to settle down. perhaps seeing all my frens all getting married really frightens me.and the desperation has led me to doing too many unneccessary things. Perhaps I will start to date someone older, at least they have being thru the mid20's crisis and understand life better than some young spoilt brats. Maybe it's time to slow things down and enjoy the journey.

The train man seems like a nice movie. Think I'll go rent and watch it. hopefully they have it in the stores.

browniebaobao SG

If u think I bullsh|t, it's ok, i wun be offended if u really think so, because I pity u for being a pile of SH|T.

oh ya, u are the kind of guy that i wun allow a chance to date me. muahahaha~

Scania N113CRB luver SG

Hey MarryMe ! Take this quiz ! You will know who you are in love. That might enlighten you further ! Good luck ! Btw, me is 16 points . It says that i dont care and dont even bother about luck in love. Embarassed Laughing

http://personals.yahoo.com/us/static/dating-advice_get-lucky

Cheers! Mr. Green

january SG

u got some attitude error.

being alone is not sad or scary thing.

it maybe bad that u are single but you have got to accept reality.

i can see that complaining and ranting is ur way of relieving the stress you have.

but you have to learn to manage your stress also. cannot means that you have stress means that you can start blaming and blaming.

why not try to work on yourself so that when you realize that you are alone and single, you do not experience the stress or fear.

i can see also that you are pretty much consume by your ego.
manage your own ego, and dun let it be the devil in you and allow it to quarrel within you , to tell you to scold pple and all that.

look at it this way, you should know that the world is not exactly fair. it is possible that you may be the only one in the world single, just like it is possible that princess diana become princess and was chased by a particular car , and chased along a particular way, and she met with the car accident in a particular fashion and ended her life.

open your eyes to the real world. Reality does caused suffering and unfairness to people by pure chance and casuality. it can happen to everyone in whatever ways.

there is no GOD to ensure happiness and fairness. and the evidence are many. i am atheist btw and just spread my stance also here.

hope you will mature and be more understanding towards nature of reality.

january SG

hey i beat u. i 24.

gigabyte14 SG

Shocked Shocked Shocked

Embarassed

gigabyte14 SG

awww, im so touched that everyone agrees with me Laughing

gigabyte14 SG

words coming out from an immature boy is crap.

gigabyte14 SG

ya, i heard that a woman's perception is very accurate.

so accurate that it's scary Shocked

MarryMe SG

Haha. I got 12.

10-14 Negativity and rigidity can be problematic for you. You have a hard time getting and maintaining a positive attitude, and may often find yourself complaining about your bad luck.

gigabyte14 SG

obviously. you have a problem.

lol i got 19.

Scania N113CRB luver SG

Haha. That thing is accurate. Laughing

MarryMe SG

U know. I'm not really afraid of being alone. In fact, I'm always alone. i prefer to be alone by CHOICE. But only in thoughts. I do have many friends actually. But that's not I want. I want to have responsibilities and something to live for. Right now all i do is work, home, go out. I have no one to answer to. I do what I want. I go where I want. I have no one to spend my $$ on. Want to go holiday with someone special also cannot. Must wait until how old then can experience all these?

ninefold9 SG

Consider visiting remote areas of Thailand, Vietnam , Sri Lanka or some pacific islands, where life will be much simpler and things no so expensive.

You might be able to marry up with more than one wives.

Living in one of the above-mentioned places which you never dream of, you will live like a Lord. If you like the place where you have chosen to settle down and when you hit the age of 55, you could withdraw all your CPF and build your own 'palace' or 'castle'.

You have got nothing to lose. Life is short; enjoy it now before you go 6 feet underground, brother.

MarryMe SG

Actually there’s on more thing I dun get it. Girls please enlighten me. WHy is it when I tell a girl I like her thru a friend, she will like avoid me?Is it becos of my looks or shy or what?

gigabyte14 SG

cos you don't know her well.

you probably met her in less than a month Rolling Eyes

MarryMe SG

are u a girl? that is not reason. that is the circumstances leading tp the effect.

gigabyte14 SG

why rush things? i ask you.

i am a guy. i had said this for the 2nd time.

huy SG

hey marry me, i tik u are too rush liao la.. cool down a bit. if this ger dosen suits u, lok for another one la. it not as if all the gers are dead. some more u are still young.. not as if u are 50 or 60 yrs old..

i tik u may consider lower ur standards a bit la.. in my opinion, those ex gfs u have may not be suitable for u.. maybe becos they are too gorgeous and they don feel like settle down so early.. lok for somone who suits ur lifestyle more.. who plan to establish long term relationship with u..

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