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i totally agree with giga.
first impression is really important. (unless its like in a group
of friends where u can slowly nurture things.)
cos if the girl sense bad vibes from u, chances are u will get left
alone.
i'm what u would call a kid but i definately know that first
impression is really important. like if u have a stable status or
have some car. the girl will tend to be more interested, NOT that
they're materialistic, but its cos they are somehow assured that
this guy has a stable income and life and if i were to be with him
for life, i should do ok.(unless u're eating air to just support
the car).
and maybe most of u won't agree with me(cos i'm still a student,
therefore no income). u buy them gifts, u treat them - i think
they'll just feel u're trying to "BUY" them.
oh ya, one more thing. how is ur communication with them like?
doesn't mean u keep sms or call them means ur communication is
good. good communication is very important. a girl may even fancy u
if she feels that u 2 can communicate well.
and when u say u're a guy when people ask u to doll up. i think
u're too old fashioned. and whats wrong with guys putting on
make-up?(not that i do, unless u count moisturisers). taking care
of ur skin and ur body shape is really important. imagine u know
someone who doesn't look good(no offence to anyone), u may give her
ur no.(like she gives u hers) but doesn't mean u will contact the
person after that meeting anymore. prehaps a change of ur outlook
would be good.
character wise, i'm not very good too (but thank god i've an
understanding girl). but really it pays off to have a proper
character. cos chances are everyone has limits(even u), the girl
will just be fed-up with u and bye-bye goes ur chance.
IMHO,by the way. i learnt this from a movie. "Assumptions are the
mother of all $%&*-ups" so dun assume that the girls are the
one at fault here. chances are - u're so conceited by urself u
didnt realise u're the one causing it.
hope this changes ur mindset and hope that it helps somehow.
