What kind of mentality should you put yourself in? (mentality is
the wrong word to use)
That you can feel violated and goes home to cry and be bitter
about it?
apparently, this answer is foolish. are you actually serious
when you wrote this? if this was the right answer, would you be
surprised?
You speak to your friends and you get their support to make a
police report about it. And making a effort to prevent this from
happening to other girls again.
This would be a start... Though there is a chance this guy may
be acquitted.
You treat it as a fling and forget about it?
It depends on whether you treated it as a fling.
To me, you seem to treat the matter in an unconventional way. Was
in rape in the conventional sense? (ie forceful sexual act acted
upon violently substantially beyond the will of the other party and
penetration can be proven to the mouth, anus or vagina) All in all,
such a circumstance is really personal and intimate to be treated
lightly. If you're willing to tell the world about it, perhaps you
should consider doing something more practical. Perhaps the second
answer to your obvious question should suffice.
