jacqn SG the guy is a normal friend. give me advice, sometimes lecture. but he is alright. my bf is very busy and has little time for me to talk to him and also be together, thus i always seek my friend’s advice.
firediviner SG Of course its alrite to go out chit chat.... But neva tell ur bf...u r indeed lokking for trouble... Cos if he finds out, u guys are looking at a potential quarrel lo
AndrewPKYap SG it is ok and don't tell him... if he finds out then deal with that... basically, live your own life. a relationship does not mean you lose yourself. after you lose yourself you are useless to the relationship.
jacqn SG thanks for the advice. as long as we are purely friends. i find nothing wrong with that. but anyway, we didnt meet in the end.
Kenashi SG meeting with friends r ok what. if yr bf can't accept it, wonder what he will do if u r married ???
smudgey SG If it's just for chit chats, 1) why hide... be honest. ur bf will appreciate honesty 2) why must be late at night? cant u meet him in the afternoon? 3) do you HONESTLY harbour NO feelings that's not platonic for this friend?
Devil1976 SG I see... I see insecurities which you both hold for each other.... And think it would be wise to deal with that which most likely not to expect an overnight result, but rather take some time out to nurture yuor relationship in ways which ight close up that gap....?
