NS really ruined my life! i hate the ARMY!

last SG · 2007-01-26T02:00:48+00:00

Hey man! Everyone of us guys have to go through that crap. LPPL! Anyway, you are not alone. Most of us may have the same problem and believe me that this is...

lonestar86 SG

guys..

we bo bian, no choice, lan lan have to serve..
it's jus 1 yr 10 months..
dun worry abt it..

mancha SG

Volunteer for Iraq or Lebanon.

Gackt247 SG

O-R-D.

Gackt247 SG

Haiz.. all i can say is.. NS isnt tough.. u juz have to pick urself up. Be strong.. Everything tt happens in ur life has a reason.. it's a learning lesson. Grow from the experience.. dun get humbled by it.

People used to say NS is the transition from boy to man. So.. start behaving like a man n stop bawling over trivial matters.

NS is nothing. That particular girl is not worth ur time n attention. U are better tt that.

Wink

Mitsubishi hater SG

[quote]Originally posted by Urroh:

Why aim at clerks? Dun you know storemens got better life than clerks? Clerks have to do more sai kang than others.
quote]
self center talk la.
serve and get lost.

khk SG

better go now cos got subsidy as NSF, some more if u wan/need to downgrade, gg for such an operation will confirm downgrade

khk SG

different ppl haf diff aspirations... ppl who love ns r not wrong, ppl who hate ns r not wrong either... it's how diff ppl see things... some ppl say ns defend ur c'try defend ur loved ones, a man must be patriotic n fulfill responsibilities, others say ns defend the govt, the state n those in power...

some ppl say ns not xiong (which i find surprising n wonder wat they do in ns) , others say ns sipeh xiong... diff ppl got diff limits(physical, emotional, psychological)... if u r strong(in watever sense,watever aspect), try to understd the 'weaker' ones, they mayb ppl u c struggling during routemarch, ippt, or those who cannot cope with mental stress or politics... diff ppl face diff probs... n no doubt ns is a low period for many, any external probs can make things worse...
shld try to help them n not scold them whiner or watever...
ppl who r 'patriotic' shld understd those who seem not to be so, why they complain... esp those who haf been thru it can easily look back n say ns is nothing, but our minds r forgetful towards unpleasant experiences... so u may not be able to understd wat other present NSFs r facing...
ok enough of crap... seek help if there is a need to, ur greatest enemy is ur mind... appreciate every moment of ur life no matter how shit it is

Devil1976 SG

Suddenly I machiam like stepped into Speakers' corner like that....? Mr. Green

jianfish9 SG

After reading all this, I really Thankful that I was posted to a good unit and life was pretty uneventful. Never, had to chiong sua there, never had to clear SoC. Even for IPPT everyone is trying to help you pass. Had great colleagues and although my place was a mainly regular unit, I never had to suffer their politics.

Ord lo.
Even now, if they ask me for reservist, I wouldn't mind too much as long as its not too soon in my career.

The first few months in NS is definitely the hardest. Most people get depressed, demoralised and jaded. I was too.

All I can say is that it does get better as the days go by. After you know your buddies well, life can be quite interesting. Nobody ever said NS is fun except for some girls or gays who have not been through NS.

NuTcRaCk SG

dude...
i can't be bothered to read thru 5pages of thread n c whether the rest posted wat i'm posting.
dis is my point of view...
1st advice, the most impt one which will sub link to my next few advices... is to read in the SAF Forum under BOOKS AND COMICS, STORIES FORUM, title of story is A LOVE STORY BY = K =
read dis story and u'll know alot of reasonin to let u know wat K and his ex is goin thru b4.

2nd advice, many couples break up durin ns is bcos their rs is not to the lvl where the girl will wait for the guy or dat the guy feels dat few days no contact will lose out to other guys. if ur love is strong enuf, there's patience in it. since she broke up with u, dat goes to show dat ur rs is not strong enuf. dis is the truth, sad but true.

3rd advice, keep ur mind occupied so dat u won't tink so much.

4th advice, think abt the ppl goin outfield, perspiring their balls off and wearing the same undies for a few days, feeding mosquitoes and all while u're stress in ur office. imagine they too have the same problem as u but they are outside while u r in ur office.

5th advice, money always cn earn, u're gettin allowance, not pay, food and drink is provided, so dun complain. if u tink cookhouse food is not gd enuf, tink abt last time when army personnel is the cook n u lan lan have to eat.

6th advice, dun tok abt the government, u nv know who's readin dis thread.

7th advice, if u really wana forget dis girl, u cn always tink abt the negative side of her. but i tink after readin dat story in saf forum, u'll tink otherwise.

To all... those dat has bgr problems or not and in NS nw, i recommend dat u go read the story in the saf forum.

cheers...
i dun even noe if TS will b readin dis... but it's also advice for others...

Kuali Baba SG

150.

O.R.D. loh!

Mr. Green

raitoh2007 SG

Blame everything..
Blame army..
Blame yr gal..
Blame other guys..

How about yourself?
Why did you choose her in the first place?
Why cant you tell if she was a rotten apple?
Why are her feelings for you so negligible?
Why blame the army?

Breakups and relationships can turn sour and life is unfair and may not always be rosy..If you think it wont work out, it most probably wont work out..

Blame yourself instead of army, blame yourself for not being able to make her stay..
But at the end, just move on since you know what she is like and how little you mean to her.. Enjoy your army days too, fought my way to become a clerk and was greatly rewarded..
All the best

confusedboi SG

since when nsfs liked the army

no one will like something when being forced to do it

WeiSon SG

it's UNTRUE that girls like fitter guys! my boyfriend will be going to the army next year and i am desperately hoping he will get the least strenuous job.i dun wan him to get high pay or whatever.i really love him, so whatever the pay, i just want easy job for him.the last thing i want is for him to get hurt.
why must all guys be so egoistic, everyone wants high rank to haolian and everything.cant they just be more considerate to people who care about them!

KenPlus SG

I don't think there anything to hao lian about rank leh durning my NS days,i only think ORD DATE is the MOST worthy to hao LIAN
I think 99 percent of the guys will exchange their ranks for eariler ORD DATE if possible.

freedom4ever SG

your bf is very fortunate to have you.

soulwinner SG

I am looking forward to army.... Very Happy

kuekkuek SG

ORD means re-service coming. sian leh

kewty SG

how cum?

willyeo SG

You are not looking to kill yourself, if you were, you will be slitting your wrist right now and drinking a huge bottle of dettol. You are just merely looking for attention, for people to show a little concern about your life. So dun say you wanna kill yourself while you dun have the balls to do it. Rolling Eyes

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