no no, this is a totally different issue oledi. 
u go read her previous thread, where she was asking for advice.
when she asked for advice here, she shud know the risk that some
people might not give genuine advice, for wat are all of us? we are
not certified counsellors or anything, just people who are willing
to spend a few minutes sharing opinions and experience which we
think might be beneficial for the threadstarter.
so even when she goes out to meet him, she shud know the risk as
well. She shud know she shud not trust someone fully, not 100%
because one, devil is just someone she just got to know. why didnt
she just discuss this issue wif her bf and not go out to meet
someone who is of a total stranger altogether? she shud understand
the risk involved before going out to meet him, but she still
went.
so that is her decision and also action, and i believe she has a
certain role to play as well in this whole thing. advice can be
given, but it is up to the individual to carefully consider it
before following it.
