Of course i am responsible for my own action. Afterall i didnt
suffer any harm at all. My bf and i did not break up. Advices from
devil nor other forumites didnt cause us to break up. Like i said,
i am not a young teenager gal who had not seen the world. And we
are not here to blame anyone for offering advice that we are not
compatible and 'try to break us up'.
What brought my bf to start this thread, just in case the same
tactic, is used on others.
step 1: gal is confused having problem with bf
step 2: moderator who is there for 6 years as others have
mentioned, who have been giving very sound advice therefore built
his credibility. (as binary had put it, there is trust and
credibility:
Step 3: gal is confused. credible and trusted mod tells her and
persistently 'prove' to her his point, that she and her bf is not
compatible, trusted and credible mod and her more compatible. And
persistently call her and ask her out for dates.
Given a confused person, especially young confused gals, will they
be able to see through it and not fall prey?
His objective is here to warn others.