Definitely after my secondary school days.
After i left that school, and went to JC.
I was a loner for most of my sec school days, very very few
friends. I think I had more friends who are my junior than I had of
people ard my age that time.
I think a lot has 2 do with the fact that I was a big arsehole back
then, and I was a compulsive liar.
At a age when I think acceptance from others was THE THING, I found
myself having to gain acceptance frm people as a way of accpeting
myself back then. And hence did a lot of stupid things. But after
getting my O-levels and then going to JC, did I realise the most
impt thing is not how people look at u, but how u look at
urself.
My most memorable time was when I was in SIM. Was there for less
than 6 mths, but gained life-long friends, friends who are willing
to stick thick and thin with u. Gosh, those happy days.