thks for your opinion.
My wife has been telling me to divorce twice recently, and she want
me to file for it.. For my best knowledge, i doubt she can proceed
with it, as i have not fall into any category below. Let me know if
m wrong.
"...five reasons which have
caused the irretrievable breakdown of the marriage stated in
section 95(3) (a ) to (e) of the Woman's Charter has been
satisfied. The most commonly used reason is unreasonable behaviour,
which encompass behaviour such as violence, gambling, intimate
association with third parties, insufficient payment of
maintenance, the use of vulgarities or abusive language, or even
reluctance to engage in sexual intercourse without valid reason.
For adultery, the burden of proof appears to be higher, and
invariably requires a private investigator's report, even if the
hearing is uncontested. The other reasons are desertion and
separation. The Court does not order costs to be paid by the
Respondent in the case of a Divorce Petition based on 3 or 4 years
separation." http://www.divorce.com.sg/page2.html
Secondly, for what purpose that she want a divorce? Based on her
reason is
1) I dont love her anymore. This is based on her intuitive, which
dont makes any logic sense.
2) She cannot accept any longer for life in SG is boring and unable
to communicate with SG ppl well. She love shopping, spending money,
tour, etc. I meant.. as family, all this leisure should be come
second, as we already have a son to support his daily needs and
education. Well,,, for leisure, cant she work and we plan for a
tour? Till today, she still say that she will NOT return to
SG.
For that,, i sense that there should be a third party involved.
Else why she insist divorce, yet on the other hand, look
appreciative towards me? Is she just genuine or simply
cunning?
For the Japan tour with her ex-.,, I MUST pretend nothing happen,,
cos if i confront her, she can actually shoot me back by saying i
having been digging her privacy, and no mutual respect.
Be whatever reasons, I guess no married man in modern society can
tolerate wife to be with another guy, WITHOUT my knowings? Am i a
puppet? or just a chess set?
Seriously ,, Im consolidating facts, ideally source from a P.I.
With no common interest and understanding in couple,, what worth is
there to live on in a marriage? There are many more years to go,
pal...
I would rather change the fate of my son.
arr.... this issue really bothers me so much.
BTW,, noting is fake here. Im trying to get more opinions and
listen to more ppl .
