Hi,
a girl friend of mine have this problem of forgetting her ex.. they
have broken up for about a year.
the thing is, they work at the same place and go to the same church
so they always meet each other.
though she says that she had got over him, she still
1) play with the stuff toy he gave her
2) feel upset everytime he ignore her at work
3) till now, do tell me of the "fun" things they had together
he on the other hand,
1) got a gf
2) the gf who know her keep bugging her
3) have a mum who pick him after work.. frm most of her stories,
its easy to tell that the mum dont like her.
4) ignore her and only look for her help only when he needs
help
now, because of problem 2,3 and 4, she feeling pretty depress. I
just feel sad that she, is behavin that way. A gal like her could
have better days ahead if only she forget him.
and yea.. i admit i got feelings for her. However, i'm not gonna
anything till she forget about this but it just feel so painful
lookin at her behaving like that. Being depress all that.
To make things worse, we are undergoing our attachment and our
exams are coming in 2 weeks time so got some exams stress
here.
So any suggestion on how i can help?