need help in helpin a friend

ghimpheng SG

http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=230353

join us for basketball

and give her good advice and that all you can do and tell her that she will get over it sooner or later and don't mention his name or stuffs related to him

just tell her that she will get over it keep propaganda her =X

ifish SG

not really sad.. but i feel painful lookin at her this behaving this way. Afterall, i just want her to be happy

redpicanto SG

Fish ah Fish, simple. Stay by her, spend more time with her, find right time, tell her your feelings for her lah. Or join her when she's playing with the toys her ex bf bought for her. Do the old fashion way, hug her tight and tell her striaght in her eyes that u like her. If still cannot work out, then plan B loh.

Plan B = Find another girl and forget about her. Very Happy

ifish SG

Plan A - Like i say, i've told her i like her before.. that was few mths back when I did not know about all this.

Plan B - i would have done the same if she's just a friend. I guess Confused

btw.. i'm not hurrying her to forget her ex so that i could get into a r/s with her

Devil1976 SG

How painful....?

zeny SG

My suggestion do not waste your time on this gal.
I know is tough but is for the best, studies is more important.

Studies = better result = better work = more $$.

Is a phase that all of us had gone through.

I was like you, hope and wish that the things I do will touch the girl I like,
but in the end is just a total waste of time.

Sadly to say the girl will just find another guy and fall in love with him instead.
So why bother to put in so much effort? If she loves you she will not treat you this way.. no point hoping that she could laugh or smile cos you will nv be able to make her feel that. I learn it the hard way, so is up to you learn it now.

ifish SG

ok guys.. thanks for ur help..

i think she finally moved on. As for the harrasment of the gf and mum, she decided to take it easy and just let them do wadever they want..

She's finally smiling more Very Happy

Devil1976 SG

I'll suggest you continue to stay near by her and give her the support she needs..? Wink

Kuali Baba SG

Just give a listening ear. Seems that she feels used and bullied though she has accepted that there’s no turning back.

ifish SG

arhh.. i feel soo miserable. I thought she had forgotten him. At least 90%. Today, i was proven wrong. All my effort feel soo wasted. I dont know whether it's just my effort or i'm just jealous. Maybe both. There's a limit to a person tolerence.

and ya it's the same girl from here
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=236779

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