Originally posted by mystee:
[b]
the word "balance" is from your question to smudey.. that i m 100%
agree to. <'protected' girlfriend whom your bf absolutely adores
and want to protect, or would you like to be the one whom he shares
everything with, including things and thoughts of his that hurt
you?> Who dont like to be adores and protected? but in a
relationship, to me, trust is most impt, hence i agree to her
saying the latter one is more impt, if i have to choose one
only.
Another thing is... "swaying of heart"
to me... is aldy a kind of betray....[/b]
Thats why if i were a guy, i will never tell. Anyway, thoughts i
may not be able to control, it is my action that i can control. if
despite my fleeting thoughts, i choose to stay faithful, and be
resolute about it and put that into action, i dun think why i
should be penalised for something that i have not done.
Yes, women may say, but in your mind you already 'swayed'. Thats
why i say, dont tell her.
