u overestimate him le, smoking in own room is nothing to do with
effort. he hardly steps out of his room, his room is like his whole
house. it dun requires any thinking on his part to lit up a
cigarette. what i am asking for is at least some consideration for
his own family members who cant tolerate cigarette smell and second
hand smoke.
every time i tell him to go out to smoke, he will jus tell me to
shut up. as for my parents, sometimes he will scold back, esp if
its my father who scold him, then sometimes on a good day, he will
say "ok! stop nagging!"
though sometimes he will guai guai go out and smoke, but it never
lasts. he will always go back to his old ways. and the cycle
resumes.
the cancer part, i dun wanna take risk. and also i believe its
quite possible when u are inhaling second hand smoke every
day.
is it so hard to spare a thought for others? esp its your own
family.
