SomeOne Help Me - Just break up with my bf

last SG · 2006-10-31T10:01:46+00:00

sad to say that.. nothing last forever..

uglypig SG

Cannot turn back the time already. hope my pain can be heal asap. really very hard. it really hurt me alot. CRY..

de_middle SG

its fortunate that ur still young, take this opportunity to know more pple out there. Who knows, a better one might just be around that corner Wink

uglypig SG

Hi, Thanks for the advice. I feeling better but still very hard loh. But i still wanting him to come back to me, i know i am very silly but no choice. who ask me to love him so much. hai. sad loh. i will find the right guy and will not get into relationship so fast. Wink

Bontakun SG

There is no need to turn back time, in fact we cherish those times from the past as part of our lives, NOT living in the past. I can tell you, your pain will not be healed ASAP, but rather gradually. You do not put a plaster over a deep cut just like that right? You have to use antiseptic, sew back the wound, put plaster and bandage over it for full recovery.

The initial days are very hard for you, which is why you need company to help you tide over this trying period. Get your close friends, family or even your stuff toys, cry, sleep, or whatever you can think of.

If you think this is also a good way, you can rant here all you want till it goes away.

Beers!
Mr. Green

LoveBeaR SG

Gal... Dun be sad... Move on in your life.. Guys changes very fast... If a guy had changed, they would not go back to the original him.. Which means that, once they had decided to break with you, they would nv have the thought of patching back.. To you, you had wanted most to patch back.. BUt to guys, they would nv let it happened... Patching back is just another chance for the guy to hurt you once more, please do not let this happen.. It would hurt yourself even more. If a guy breaks up with you because of another gal, that means that he is not worth your love.. As if he really loves you, he would not one leg step on 2 boat...

Doing silly things does not turn the time back to the past... Carry on... You would surely find a guy that is worth of your love.. But Surely Not the guy that one leg step on 2 boat...

As you go along, you would see more people, experience the outer world, getting to know more people at a later time, at this time, you can find a guy tt is worth your love and he will loves you too... It is just a matter of time.. Maybe take this relationship as an experience, having to let u see different types of guys that would or might appear in your life...

But i believe that no matter what happens, your friends will always be with you, caring and concerning about you... So no matter what, if you have any burdens or problems, find a friend to talk to... I believe that your friend would be more than willing to be a listener and give you some advice...

Jia You gal... You can do it de... Wink

uglypig SG

I called myself uglypig, because he always say i ugly and look like a pig. I not those pretty girl lah, that why call myself ugly pig. I want to do alot of things just to make myself busy so that i will not think of him, but it is so hard as weekends, all my friend need to accompany their bf. No one is there for me, is not i do not want to go out, just that no one accompany me. Every weekend, stay at home, i will start thinking of him. It is so hard. Hai.

uglypig SG

Yes, i am still young. but i want to get married at a younger age. hope the next guy will treasure me and not to hurt me again.

Bontakun SG

I assume you are not on close terms with your parents or siblings (should you have 1 or 2) and ALL of your friends have boyfriends? What about those whom you seldom contact? Got ask them out for a drink and chit chat?

LoveBeaR SG

If he always say you are ugly and look like a pig, then he is not worth your love... How can he say you (as his gf) are ugly and look like a pig?? If he loves you, why must he say you ugly and call u pig.... Maybe u say u are not those pretty gals, but beauty is from inner not outer... outer will not last forever... But inner like kind, love, care will last forever and ever..

Try to go out with friends whom they no need to accompany or have no bf de... I am sure that not all ur friends have bf, right? you can get them to accompany you... Maybe some of ur friends have bf, but maybe weekends, they could still meet u to go out with u with u really need them... Wink

dragg SG

he smsed you to initiate the breakup. he did not even bother to tell you in person. that shows he has no respect for you.

he sms you on a working day. thats shows he did not even bother about your feelings.

forget about him. its not easy but you have no choice.

smudgey SG

For that reason alone, I thank God that you are no longer with him.

I believe that in any relationship, our partners must never put the other down by saying such things to each other. even in anger. you are so much better off without that A$$hole!!!!

pls know that you are special and beautiful in your own way, we all are. and some day some one will see the beauty in you. pls do not put yourself down.

A friend once told me. The major diff between me and all those beautiful gals out there is one word "confidence" when you are confident and not self concious, you will look amazing (btw, i'm not great beauty myself, but i believe i have my charms)

Every morning look in the mirror and tell yourself you are beautiful. as for friends being busy, I'm sure your friends will spare some time with you when they know you need them, do not be ashame to ask for help. that's what friends are for.

if not you can always make new friends... take up a course, if u like drawing, photography, dancing, anything. go join something and make new friends.

uglypig SG

on that day, i wanted to call him ask why want to break up. He say he dun have the face to talk to me. I cry like hell. Talk on phone also dun dare. What is this sia. Maybe he only want to get rid of me asap so dun even care about my feeling at all.sad

uglypig SG

haha, no lah. I very closed to my parent and my sister one. My sister now taking O-level so i dun want her to pei wo. But when i need her, she still willing to go out with me. haha. not all my friend got bf, but they also have their other friends. I dun like to go out with friends one, i only go out with best friends. Those seldom contact already, they would not bother me one lah. Sian....

smudgey SG

why do you say that?

I got good friends that seldom meet, but when anyone of us have probs, we will be there....

don't have so little faith in them, just call them.

you don't like to go out with friends? you should... sometimes the ppl u think you may not get along that well with may turn out to be your new best friend...

you are only 21, don't limit your friends now... go out make new friends

Bontakun SG

Wah... liddat limit you relationship growth with friends leh. Hmm... how about exercising? Swimming, running, cycling, blading, or walking. Or read books in library? Free air con. Laughing

uglypig SG

Heehee, although he say i fat, ugly but he treat me very good loh. Just that it changes so suddenly. Hai. When i tell myself i am pretty, but when i think that guys only look at the appearance of a girl then i no more confident liao. Most guy only find beautiful girl, look at the out look and not the inner beauty. My friends told me i have inner beauty just that i dun know how to doll up myself ba. Haha. i only like to watch tv, listen to 933 that all. Now thinking how to make new friends. HEEHEE. Maybe you all are my new friends. Laughing

dokono SG

I know it's hard.

I know it hurts.

That is life.

At least you know the result sooner than later, rather than he telling you on the day of your marriage and he says "I have no more feelings for you."

There are tonnes of good Singapore males here.

Just as good girls are hard to find, good guys are also hard to find as well.

Just wait and the right guy will appear soon.

doko

mhcampboy SG

Wow.. this is very sad.

Ok la, on the positive side, maybe he does have feelings for you still. You have been together for more than 3 years now. Its a shame and a lie if that guy do not love you anymore. In my heart, i strongly believe he still loves you.

Why did he break up with you then if you may ask? simple, he found a new gal. Its typical for someone to break up easily when they got a new partner. This is the case for your ex. But trust me, when he is alone, he will still think about you and remember all the good times you both had. im sure you do not want him to forget you right? well, in short, im sure he wont.

But of course, i also have to say, is this the kind of guy you want? someone who call you names and break up with you over a new gal? trust me when i say this. When he has problems with that gal, the first thing he would do is to call you.

do you want a guy who takes you for granted? human nature is like that. they tend to overlook the diamond in his life for something which he thinks is much more worth outside.

so, think about it. 3 years is a long time. you can still wait and try to salvage the relationship cos i believe his love to u is still there.

but are you prepared to be hurt over and over again in the future? or be hurt now and in the future u can think back and laugh about it?

Wink

be strong...

uglypig SG

I got contact those lost time nv contact friends, but they like nothing to talk with me. So i only managed to find some good friends only. To me, have some good friends is enough liao, not need to have so many one. Best friend very hard to find one. I already have my best friends beside me already.

LoveBeaR SG

Best friends are hard to find... Glad that you have found ur best friends.. I believe that your best friend will always be with you when u need their accompany de... Must treasure best friends... Dun let them slip away... Razz

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