Cant Forget

last SG · 2006-12-20T15:09:45+00:00

sometimes not say wanna forget then forget. i really tried for a mth le. still cant. i do other things, these and that. but it juz cant go away. the feelin i...

Devil1976 SG

Sore loser.

Sorry, been too tired lately.

Devil1976 SG

You are not soft-hearted. Just idiotic. Currently there's no medication for that.

Devil1976 SG

Somehow he might not even be that?

mitgalant SG

no la. really not sore loser or what la. isit it worse if get her back then dump her right? if thats the case, why must i be doin all these right? its definately nt the case.

somehow i juz feel she is very unstable now. as in her mind is still confuse of who she really want. thats why maybe she is makin a wrong move now.

Devil1976 SG

And you think you're not confused and you're making the right moves Question

mitgalant SG

but why would u all say its the wrong move?

its like, erm everyone make mistakes right ? isit it better for me to forgive?

afterall, when everyone make mistakes,we all do hope ppl will forgive us right?

not possible for me to give her one last chance ? or rather give us both another chance ?

smudgey SG

give up.

she's not worth it.

think about it. if she comes back to you, but 2-3 months later tell you again that there's this other guy... and she's unsure....

can you take it?

do you deserve it?

pls let go and try to move on.

about the other gal, let her down gently. this is not the way you'll wanna start another relationship

snobbish SG

We can never 4get someone we love, have shared so much memories with. Impossible. The only thing we can do is let go and wish her/him the best. Dun force yrself 2 4get, it can't be done.Take care Wink

Devil1976 SG

She want the chance or you want the chance?

Yunhaier SG

Delusion is fertile ground for karmic relationship.

Cheers

Yunhaier SG

I cant say that its a wrong move unless its read as wrong by your thoughts. I hope you do understand that its not so much about how I (we) think, much more than how you would like yourself to think?

I think its needless to make a decision and trying to sell your decision to everybody when its not exactly something agreeable by the mass. If you already planned to do something that the mass reckoned as foolish and warned against, I suggest you should just do what you will. After all, its your life that you govern not mine or theirs. Because to me, you probably just need that extraneous retaliated lesson to advance the next level in love? Idea

Cheers

mitgalant SG

haiz. i knw, sometimes it's like better for me to forget her, move on etc like what u all have advised me.

but its really tough.

plus, i duno how to tell u all, how much i love her. very difficult to do without her etc.

guys, i keep havin the feelin that, i am still impt in her life. she is juz actin on impulse ba ? somehow or rather, the feelin keeps lingerin in mymind.

Yunhaier SG

If you like to appease your short term and sacrifice your long term development - I am fine with it. Because ultimately when time reveals everything, you will realise that you are just dwelling in a black hole, wasting yourself away.

Somebody else is definitely much more worthy out there. You could either learn to pick up the broken fragments of yourself, or continue to shatter those pieces into smaller bits.

Really, you don't have to convince me that your clouded intuition says she still carry a torch for you because it's your mind you are deluding and rejecting the option to release yourself off this emotional bondage.

Is '...Tough to move on...' a good excuse to remain where you are?

Do as you will. Idea

Cheers

bigdeal SG

hey bro,

doko and the rest already made it very clear. if she cant give u an answer, means that she dunno how to reject u and her heart still has him. do u want a girl wif her heart on others? i tried, but failed. not possible already.

move on, tell her all the nasty words that how she treat u, make her hate u if u cant hate her. really, move on bro.. i wouldnt want u to treat the new gal as a sub, but u can try to love again..

me and you, we're of same fate, spare tyres, admit it.

we cant control other ppl's action. everyone has to answer for their own. find urself, get up again.

time heals, scars will be left, yes. but its a learning process, it will remind u. ur next r/s will be better Smile

jack

Bontakun SG

I am only replying to the topic on "Can't forget":

If you cannot forget, then don't forget!

Simply put it aside and do other things. Who say you have to totally erase the memories you so wanted to forget about? That is virtually impossible unless you get hypnotized or some advance machinary capable of removing that particular memory from you or worse... amnesia...

Memories are part of our lives. We cannot simply just forget and move on. Its what makes us grow. Sure it must be painful and torturing, but without pain and torture, how can you know what truely is bliss and joy?

Btw... I am hungry... nth to eat.................. -__________-'''

mitgalant SG

my gosh guys. a very bad christmas.

somethin happened to this situation. i felt so damn foolish so damn stupid. i feel i am like being played to the max. everythin i do is darn wrong.

i duno how to relate it. i am afraid she might see this forum. cos the previous post i put she saw it.

but yet today this thing is affectin me very very badly. haiz. what can i do ? i really need lots of help. at this very moment.

Sad Crying or Very sad

maybe i PM afew of u and see u guys got any solutions for me? sigh.

mitgalant SG

eheh guys if receive my PM, pls dun show in public k. thanks

Devil1976 SG

Somehow I feel he might not even be that?

Devil1976 SG

No solution. Cause you're the one who simply refuses to remove your leg which is stuck in the pile.

smudgey SG

agreed, although i didn't get your pm, but from this thread and the last one,

i can see that you are causing your own pain.

solutions and advices are only useful if you USE it!

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