I know you are trying to overcome the barrier. As a fellow
brother, even though I said I have given up on you, I will offer
you this advice:
"You are the only problem and solution to yourself. No one else
is."
Fix yourself first. The problem is not with the girl. The problem
is not the competitor. The problem is not your fate. The problem is
not with the world.
The problem is you. And with every problem there comes a solution.
And that solution only comes from you. Only you can seek the
solutions. We are not you. We merely provide guidelines. Buddha
once said he cannot take you to enlightenment but can only point
you the path of it.
As I speak to you, I am also speaking to myself. This post is not
for only you but for myself.
Take care. All the best.
doko
