let me elaborate. i'm not some psycho stalker who run after
every chio bu he sees. i make frens freely with male and female
alike.
but if i see a gal i like, i will go fren her first. then try to
hang out with her more and more often to see if she is interested.
then hor, if e gal reciprocate by looking me up more and more and
we get closer i'll "start the chase".
dun be mistaken...when chasing i dun do mushy shit like buy roses
or sing with guitar. when i "chase" i juz try to become very very
good frens and start showing care + concern without ever expressing
"luv" explicitly.
so gotch three stages:
1) fren fren
2) good fren
3) care and concern
then hor, if all 3 pass (take 3-6 mths) i might express my
feelings. but hor, every time reach 2) or 3) i will kena cold
treatment. totally drop off a cliff. then hor, people will say i
expect too much from gals. 
