Maybe Singapore culture different ba. Other countries (esp
western ones) they are quite open to the concept of "looking for
dates". Gotch speed dating, singles gathering, online dating
etc.
Normally we just see whatever gals (or guys for the ladies) we are
interested in at social gatherings and try to chat him/her up and
then subsequently ask them out on dates if they are willing to "try
us out".
Here so innocent one...know opposite sex purely for frens onli. Of
course we gotch frens of the opposite sex totally not interesed for
gf/bf also. But we also freely make frens for gf/bf purposes.