Mmmm, being a girl, I think you better listen to me =).
Forget the people who tell you to get rich or to smoke.
It's not good for you, and having all these things won't make girls
love you. It'll only make them lust after you. Big difference there
xD.
I'm guessing you're only in sec sch? I think you should wait a bit,
maybe look around. Befriend girls, but don't hold the motive of
going out with them. Be sweet, be charming, be nice, be whatever.
But most importantly, be yourself. If may take a while, but people
will start noticing you. The worst thing ever is to pretend to be
someone you're not, then struggle to keep up that image. Believe
me, I know. 
