last time i thought getting a gf is something to be proud of,
like people tend to look at you and talk about you. You feel happy
walking in the mall when holding a girl's hand, or holding her
shoulders makes singles envy of you. But that is all but the
typical perception that crawls into the minds of half-ripe
adults(teenager).
Yes, it's true you don't feel lonely when you have someone to
accompany you, you feel happy when the girl lies her head on your
shoulder, you feel that you are perfect when you kiss a girl and
you feel that there is someone to support you when you think that
everyone in this wolrd turns against you. All these come when you
find your true love. But true love doesn't come easy for almost
everyone.
love in teenagers will not last long, because most of them are just
trying out their new found ability which enables them to get
attracted to the opposite sex. NO harm trying though
if you want to find out how it feels. But don't
succumb to peer pressure. It's dangerous. Let it come naturally. It
doesn't matter whether you got a gf in your teenage life. I never
got into a relationship when i was a teenager because i was too
ambitious in my studies and tend to be too kiasu.i ended up turning
down all the girls who are intersted in me. I was quite regret when
thinking about that.
Built your self confidence but don't get too over with it. Self
confidence isn't arrogance by the way, but it means you have your
own perspective on economy, social and life. Try to Read more
newspaper or magazines to equipe yourself. Study hard, get good
results. treat people kindly, but reserve some naughtiness in you.
That doesn't mean you need to go over the limit, like talking dirty
to a girl, or beating people. Try to make some jokes. Create a new
personality that you think it suits you, not the one you like, and
try to improve in it.