[quote]Originally posted by BrUtUs:
Originally posted by Amber20:
many ppl said those NS guys with gf have nothing big to worry
except worry of BING BIAN ( means GF change heart when her bf is in
ns) .
Reasons due to it is:
(1) no time to acc HER
(2) cant share with HER saddness or happiness everyday
(3) NS guys BOTAK liao, SHE might find that he is not attractive
anymore..
OTHER look nicer.
(4) cant stand loneliness
(5) don't understand e tireness in NS
and many more reasons ..
but my relationship is very different wor..
(1) he have no time to acc me.. i don
mind.. two weeks meet once.. is ok de..
(2) he cant share with my saddness or happiness everyday but not
even often..
(3) my bf is not BOTAK, i never find him not attractive
anymore..
OTHER look nicer, So?
(4) i can stand loneliness coz i have to
work almost everyday..
(5) i k understand e tireness in NS. i willing to go until that far
to find him..
but do he appreicate? NO NO NO..
But i never BING BIAN le.. how would i wish i k..
but y does i just cant give up on him .. i am really very different
from other gal who BING BIAN but why my bf still
like very cold towards me? take me 4 granted?
doesnt this sound absurd?
since u feeling tis then tell him lo...
In red: You sound like you are contradicting yourself here.
He cannot accompany you and you don't mind. Then later you
contradict yourself by complaining that he did not share happiness
with you. What are you talking about? He also has his problems too.
He also can't share NS with you, can he?
Then you say you can stand loneliness and you understand his NS
transition period but you are still feeling that lack of lovingness
from him. You contradict yourself by saying that you can stand
loneliness and you still want to meet him. Truth is, you aren't.
Lots of confusing language here. What about you showing your
lovingness by not demanding too much ? Aren't you contradicting
yourself here? You know his problems but you are complaining. Are
you being understanding?
Haha...Im not trying to scold you or anything. Give him room to
relax and adjust into NS life.
OK? 
doko
