Originally posted by Blahhh:
Ok. I expected others to be very angry and skeptical. I am
right. So let me talk a little bit about myself(my favourite
topic).
I was [b]nothing at 15 years old. No friends, no
girlfriend, nothing. My dad is different. When he got hospitalized
for a minor heartattack, flocks of people came to visit him. It
even impressed the nurses there.
My dad emphasized the importance of having the ability to make
others feel for you. Basically, he just told me I need to bulk up
on my social skills. So he taught me stuff like eye contact,
remembering peoples names, having a good listening ear, making
others feel important while showing them I am of high status myself
and so on. Those are just the basics that most people learn as they
get older. The old man taught me more. His teaching, time and me
going out experimenting all over the place, gained me much wisdom.
I got to know many people who otherwise, be total strangers in my
life.
Its a natural flow
my social skills became more polished, I
started mixing with the opposite sex and I keep learning.
There are many dudes with GREAT social skills. You think that fat
ah beng got his chio girlfriend by luck izzit? There are many guys
who go clubbing solely to pick up women for an ONS... and they are
very SUCESSFUL
I look very average. I am not working and I the only vehicle I have
isnt a Ferrari. Its not even 4 wheeled. I am currently riding a
200cc bike with a p-plate still on. So how? Those things are just
added bonuses. Whats important isnt an expensive car, a whole
line of credit cards, nice condominium or good looks (but it
helps). Whats important is you
having a great personality.
Thats why I always tell my friends who have problems getting a
girl to like him to work on their social skills first. [/b]
we are angry.
or the guys are angry, NOT because tt we sux in
socialising..
we blushes like fcuk when we talk to members of opposite sex.. and
we cannot look into ppl's eye when you talk.
what makes you think u are more wanted than us here.
you pig, male chauvanistic one.
we are angry, because your beliefs of having all 4 is an insult to
us.
insult to ppl who actually believes in one love, one lifetime.
i may sound unrealistic as many can feel, but at least keep it as
one as a time!
your comment made me wonder, if the female gender in general, is a
commodity, tt you can 'purchase' using your self-acclaimed superb
'socialising' skills. the thought of it alone, disgust me.
the ability to socialise itself shld be a channel, for you to
present urself more confidently and nicely to members of the opp.
gender. not as part of a coinage system which u can 'buy' women
over.
i am now asking you ONCE MORE.
can your partner 4-time u? as in having 3 other males together in a
marriage. and you can only share with other men.
PLUS, you not supposed to have someone else.
please use your brain.
even though it may be one of a chauvanistic pig, a male one, i
meant.
